According to that lunar chart Evie should've been a boy and i'm having a boy this time
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According to that lunar chart Evie should've been a boy and i'm having a boy this time
id say its going to be wrong both times for you tara!!! girls all the way for you my sweet!!
Woot!
i've been motivated this afternoon too. I actually started to feel a bit of that 'glowing' feeling, finally!!!
now DH is sick, so i'm so hoping he doesnt get it like i had it.
hmm..what else... la la la...
here's a joke i heard the other day:
3 men are sitting in a bar. A ferrari drives past and 1 man goes 'that car reminds me of my wife' 'why?' the other 2 ask 'well, she's sleek, hot and sporty'.
next a bmw drives past, another man says 'that reminds me of my wife' 'why?' they ask 'well, its sturdy and strong'
next an ambulance goes past, lights and sirens blazing and the last man says 'now THAT reminds me of my wife' the other men look puzzled
'well,it's all she says - dooo this dooooo that dooooo this doooo that'
i've got another if you all promise to laugh at that one
i like it tara :lol:
Ive gone off them prediction things now...sets me up for heartbreak :(
LOL Tara.....next joke..keep em coming
lol tara I love your joke!!!
Hi girls well this week hasn't been the best Jake caught a shocking cold from somewehere - prolly the plane - and was really sick he doesn't sleep well on holidays as it is so it has been half in the cot half me in bed. AND he can't touch anything in case he soreads his germs which wasn't a very successful rule bcos now all of us are sick including baby josie :( spent most of this week apologising. I am hacking like a dog and jake has a green nose and a hacking cough went to dr yday said is just a cold blah blah blah
ann I left your details at home and cleared my pms bcos my box was full we are both sickly so if you want to avoid illness I understand txt me either way
I had waves of nausea yesterday due for af monday or next monday my last was xmas eve so mmmmm was like oh f$$k great AT LEAST LET ME ENJOY MY SEX DRIVE BEFORE PG AND BF TAKE IT AWAY AGAIN!!!!!!!! :redface: will keep you posted may just be part of this virus
love you all xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
did it...and it was right! a boy. so there you go.
aawww nelly i hope you all get better soon!!
id say cold and all if it was me id still meet you!!!
vicky mine was right too
Ann - bilby is 14 months and only has one word really - Dadda. We hear Mumma just the last week, a little bit, but not consistently yet.
Ella's teeth sound amazing! we only have maybe four definites, couple lurking.
now who said about their bub lying down but refusing to go to sleep if moved (to cot etc) - we have the same thing - have taken to getting her to sleep in the playpen, just to get SOME naps happening.
bilby's FIRST time in a sandpit today - loved it, and also FIRST time going down a toddler slippery dip, first on my lap and then, me holding her waist and her going down on her own well padded cloth nappy butt - a minky nappy and i didn't even think, will this wreck the minky? i just was happy to see her delight.
and a first for me today, had to change my bilby in the stroller (in the Spotlight carpark cos they didn't have a baby change area) and i was dreading it - of course it was a FULL nappy - only one today, had to be then didn't it?? and bilby very conveniently sucked her toes and stayed perfectly still, so i was able to deal with the poo without it going all over the pram liner, as i feared, cos normally she kicks and does crocodile rolls (on the changetable) - so changing her in the stroller wasn't so bad after all, but i tell ya, she's getting so long, i don't think it will be possible for much longer = just due to her length.
bilby is around 9kg Ann, is Ella really under 5kg? that seems incredible!
That sucks Kimbaz about the airline not letting you fly with your girls. That sounds like discrimination. sure you have Craig, but what if you were a single parent? or for whatever reason had no 2nd adult to come with. sounds unfair. My SD flies as an unaccompanied minor frequently.
ANy more jokes Tara? I liked your joke!
Vicky, people living near the north pole e.g the Poms do get SADS (Seasonally something Depression), living nine months with sometimes only four days of daylight - being treated with special lamps that go off whilst they're sleeping - to make their body feel like they're getting more light. Sunlight is important to our wellbeing. I worked in London for over a year and remember, going to work in pitch black (8am), coming home from work in pitch black (5pm) and absolutely CRAVING some sun!
Oops silly fingers typed 4.7kg for ella's weight instead of 8.7kg...that's better.
Nelly just messaged you to meet up today. Weather is nasty today so better stay indoors. Cold and all we still want to meet you and your beautiful boy.
Bilby sounds so cute sliding down the slide.
Ooops screaming baby wants to get off the ride-on!
gotta go
Ann
ANN and NELLY enjoy your meetup!!!!!
sophie has taken to walking backwards!! soo funny!!
How cute Jols!!!
Okay, now I'll try to catch up....
Nelly, Matilda's gotten sick before on holidays at friends houses & passed it around too. Its hard but there is nothing you can do :hug: I hope Jakey is feeling better.
Ann & Nelly enjoy your meet up :D
I need a new av too.... want my picture back LOL but I have to wait for Kelly to get back from hols because thats where it is stored on her computer.
Gigi how did the minkie go?? Jovie loves sand pits & loves eating it :rolleyes:
Vicky :hugs: would love to catch up but the next 2 weeks for me are mental. Next Thursday we are going to Sydney for 5 days to see IL's & friends. We went to Scarborough (sp?) on the weekend near Redcliffe & OMG it was beautiful. DH has been looking at houses nearby ever since.
Kim I did the conception charts as well with heartbreak. Both times it said I was having a boy!!!
ATM looks like TTC is on hold. I don't feel finished but that may just be because I don't have my boy, ykwim? At the same time I don't ever want to go back to those first 3 months... not right now. I'm too tired LOL.
I'm going to a specialist next week to find out if there is something going on with my endocrine system because I'm just exhausted... even those days where I was sleeping 18 hours a day when DH was home exhausted me. So we shall see.... I have my suspicions. I had adrenal issues when I was younger (10-17yrs). I just feel like the first 2 months of pregnancy all the time atm.
isn't it hysterical Jols? Aston likes to spin around too... think he likes the dizzy feeling!!
He woke up at 5am this morning because of the stupid magpies! he is back in bed now, so i'm off to lay down myself. I'm still not able to sleep, so i went to bed at 12am.
have a good day everyone.
x
Day from hell yesterday, night from hell.....nothing more to say here :(
:hugs: kim, we'll have to catch up soon
im feral today in a 'blame everything' on DH day!!!
oh kim... i hope today is better hun. i'm just continuously cranky at the moment... only one more week of the school holidays left... i hate to say it but thank god!! its just bben horrible weather, which has made the kids horrible, and me horrible, and horrible all round. over everything. had better do some soul feeding for me before I run away I think!
Hope today is better Kim
Jols LOL i have those days alot im suprised DF hasnt walked by now !!!
Sounds like Bilby loved the slide and sandpit!!
Vicky, damn maggies!!
Speaking of DF he came up and gave me a hug and kiss last night and atm im just hating any affection so i was just like meh, he said "i dont think u love me anymore" "like seriously i dont think u do"!! i told him not to be silly and i was the same when pregnant with Emelia, somedays i dont mind other days it irratates me to be hugged and kissed, DTD...am i a weirdo?!! I told him to remember wat im like when im not UTD, im all over him sorry TMI!!! poor DF might have to take him out for dinner or something!
Def need a catch up Jols
Hmmm....melt down....how do i get rid of family??
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:hugs: Kim im so angry for u :(
thats terrible kim :(
Kim - :hugs:
I come from a toxic family too. And I recently decided that the best thing for me and MY family is to remove them out of my life for a while. My mum was recently up here, and the longest I could have her around me was 7 days, and then I was more then ready for her to go. My sister - god don't get me started!
the best advice I can give you is to do the same, remove the toxicity hun. You don't need it. you dont want it, you don't deserve it. Take care of YOU and yours. let them fester in their cr@p.
I wish it was as easy....my dad is great and i cant rule him out of the girls life and know wats goin on....but of course he'd tell me what they were up too....
Im lost as to wat to say or do.
oh Kim :hug: sometimes family sucks. I often have heard my mum on the phone to her sisters talking about my parenting. I have confronted her & she gets upset & says that she raised 2 kids and knows how to do it. Its frustrating but there isn't any reason you need to take what she says on. So, your girls are spoiled. FANTASTIC! They are unconditionally loved. I don't understand how a 14 month old could be spoiled. It makes me angry.
I have a neighbour who says my kids are spoiled & need a smack & I get so angry. But then I think Thats her way of resolving issues. I would prefer my girls grow up to find other ways of dealing with conflict and frustration. If they dealt with those issues by just smacking the person who disagrees with them or who makes them angry than I haven't taught them well.
Lift your head mate, they don't understand you and don't appear to want too. If they are judging you than you parenting is obviously making an impact & making them feel less than adequat in what they have done/are doing.
well said christy!
hope you get the fatigue issues sorted out
im sad tonight, someone come and pick me up :( asked DH for a divorse tonight, he wouldnt give me one
oh babe. Are you on MSN?? Wanna chat?
nah dont know how to work it!!!
thanks anyway
wow sounds like everyone is having a **** day. evie is as happy as anything but wont eat.
DH is as sick as a dog.
i had a massive gush of blood this afternoon which is really what i needed (sense my sarcasm girls). i felt like no-one would help me. it was like i was screaming 'i'm freakin pregnant can someone do something!!!' when finally a dr said she would fit me in and the ultrasound place said they would too.
Dr listened for heartbeat and there was none. but ultrasound showed baby is perfectly happy, heartbeating fine and dates are spot on.
*shrug*
yup, like everyone, i think i would rather write this day right off
Aw Jols...want me to come get u.. u can come get drunk with Craig and me....its all we can do today
Geez Tara my heart stopped when u said blood and no heartbeat....phew..glad i kept reading on!
aww thanks kim thinking of heading to my parnets for lunch tomorrow though they give me the ****s so i wont last long!! sunday is an old work catch up taht DH was suppost to come to as well, but volenteered to work, not happy
tara hope everything is ok, rest up as much as possible!!
ann thanks for the hug!!
Im glad i aint BF..cos Jas would be drunk after her next feed....gunna drown my sorrows and pay the price tmrw morning.
oh hun... I'm having a glass for you, but please drink water now!!!
Ann, bilby was very cute on the slide, mainly it was cos of her pure excitement and glee - she so enjoyed it. I would gee her up, "here we go, a one, a two, a 1 2 3 wheeeeeeeee!" so she knew it was coming and would get all excited (giving her a pattern).
The baby gates are installed, so we're ALL living in a gated community as of today. one gate to block off the room with the computers, one gate to block hall from kitchen, one gate to block pantry doorway from kitchen.
Finding the C shaped baby locks easier to manage on the furniture handles than the ones with the bow strings you push in and out.
Who needs an alarm clock when you have magpies hereby Vicky!!!!
Nelly and Ann - enjoy your meetup!
Christy, glad you're going to get checked out, no good feeling below par constantly. Sleeping 18 hours a day! wow, you are unwell chickadee.
GIGI we use the c locks as well, there great, glad bilby liked the slide!! sophie loves the swings!!
KIM hows the head this morning??
feeling soooo much better today. feel like i'm back in the land of the living!
Jols, sorry, why are you ****ed off? whats happened/ing? something a drink can't cure!? i wont hear of it! j/k - is everything ok?
Kim - how are you feeling this morning. mouth feel like a forest? ew!!
Christy - whats happening? Have you got to the root of why you're so tired? sorry i've missed a bit there.
Gigi - we've just got gates, but i know when we move back to our house i'll need to invest in some locks. Will give the c locks a try then! Evie loves the slide too, were you amazed bilby could use it? i so didnt think evie was ready! proved me wrong!!
Ann and Nelly - have fun today!
vicky - how's things lovey? we've got the rain here today..just for a change. had 2-3 days of sunshine..so at least evie will have some idea of what the suns like and doesnt freak out when she's older lol
have a good day everyone ;)
Nelly - had a great catch up. It was so good to see you. It IS wierd we are all sharing the most important part of our lives with people on the other end of a modem. ;) We're going to try the playgyms again after the miserable experience Ella had...i blame the teeth.
Jake is just the most beautiful boy is very aware - sharing food with Ella and just adores mummy ;)
Jols - chin up honey. Hope you're feeling better and get some relief at your parents.
Tara - scarey! Geez reading your post i was holding my breath. Glad bubbsie looks good. How is Evie?
Gigi - I would love to see bilby go down that slide. She has the most contagious smile.
Christy - how are you and the girls. I read your post about your neighbours and i thought its absolutely none of their biz how you raise your kids. Its not like they are over at their place trashing the garden and getting away with it.
Vicky - Kids back at school soon? sounds like you need the space. Hope ex hasnt bothered you again.
Kim - How's the head this morning??? lol
Well we're off to buy a new microwave - ****roaches got into it and died and they are shorting the motor somehow. Little Ella's bottom molars are through but (as Nelly would tell you) the top molars are now on the move!! poor chicken.
Ann
ANN i wish! :( just rang my folks to tell them id drop up and my dad tell me mum and my sister are off swimming with dolphins!!! for farks sake lets not tell jols!! im sooooo upset just been bawling on the phone to DH who is equally ****ed off at them, im so left out of everything, dont get asked to join in on something, mum and my sister do everything together, me.... just the unplanned pregnancy, wish sometimes id never been born:
oh jols... ring me! you have my number still don't you? I know that it doesnt take away your heart ache, but at least its someone to vent to, and talk things through with.
Ann - glad you and nelly had a good time together, was thinking about you both yesterday. Yes, I will be glad when the school holidays are over - with all the rain we have had its been bloody exhausting. going to get my hair cut on Wednesday, and are hoping that makes me feel a bit better about myself.
Tara - hun! what's going on with this bub of yours!! I'm so glad that everything is ok, but for f@cks sake - you have to take it easy. you should have come home and told everyone that you have to be on complete bedrest!
Kim - its hard not to buy into the dyfunctionality dance, especially if its been going on for a while. Can you possible say to your dad, that you want him in your life and the girls, but really don't want to know what is going on with your mother and sister, and would prefer that he didn't tell you anything that they said aobut you? It will be hard - because human nature is you want to know what is going on/said etc... but you really need to take care of you hun, and your girls, and being in a state of frustration and anger about people you have no control over is not good for you or the girls. keep your integritity and don't buy into it - its their problem, don't let it be yours. At the end of the day, it really doesn't matter what they think. If you can hold you head up high, and have kept your own moral compass - then whatever they do/say is their problem. raise above it hun. you can do it. :hugs:
HI Christy - all the sickness gone from you house? are you looking forward to going away?
Gigi - i love this age, everything is wonderous and exciting, and makes your heart smile. enjoy it hun.
Nelly - I miss you!
Anne - How is Zoe? what wonderous things is she up to?
Rich and the kids are out mowing and doing the yard, Aston is asleep, and I have 5 mins to myself... bliss. Have been busy working out what we are doing this year - Rich's dad and partner are coming over again in October, we are thinking about taking a short break again to Bargara, and I'm heading to far south NSW for a family reunion in July...its going to be bloody freezing! but are really looking forward to it. My friend who had major surgery on her mouth is ok, no cancer thank god, but still a 6 month recovery. think I will get her up here and do some painting together once the kids are back at school. Have a good weekend everyone xxx
went into a pet shop to show ella the fish and she screamed in delight. The man next to us said under his breath "stupid". What the.....??
Some people have no joy in their life.
Ann