Tanya: I have a baby bjorn and it's not great. The shoulder straps just aren't adjustable enough and it's really hot and makes me sweat. A hug-a-bub is much much better on your back. A friend of mine has an ergo and loves it, I've only heard rave reviews about the ergo. Babes in arms sells it and their customer service is fantastic.

Jude didn't sleep so well last night, I nearly lost it. I was so tired and my boobs were out of milk and Jude just wanted to keep drinking so he was head butting me in frustration at 11pm and I just wanted my husband to give him formula so I could sleep. I feel terrible about how upset I got at Jude, yelling at him like it was his fault my boobs don't work.

Today I sat beside his bassinet and patted his nappy while I read him Russian folk tales so I could get him to go for 3 hours between feeds. He's been so demanding lately.