PP - It's a good friend of my DH who's getting married and I don't know anyone who's going very well. I don't mind if Maya cries while I eat I'm more thinking of the person who has to hold her. Not sure if there will be any volunteers to hold a screaming baby while I eat or not. But I guess my DH can spare some time here and there to take her off my hands. And maybe someone there will not mind holding a crying baby. I've just found lately that now that she cries in people's arms they are always in a huge hurry to pass her back to me.