Happy birthday Rylee!!!
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Happy birthday Rylee!!!
sorry to be a downer of a post..
but im just having bad day after bad day, i cant stop crying, im getting the s*its with the kids, im so lonely, i need some adult comapny, how the f$ck do i move on, this is just so f##ked!! soory girls just had to get it of my chest.
goodmorning ladies
what a beautiful sunny day it is in melbourne today!!
i love waking up to sunshine!!! puts me in a great mood :)
did my fathers day shopping yesterday for hubby and my dad so all complete!!
all thats left to do is shopping for Savanna's birthday which is on Tuesday!!!! my goodness my little girl will be 2!!!!
Her party is all organised aswell so im feeling relaxed!
we are having it at a childrens play centre so no cleaning up afterwards for me! yayyyy hehe
well better get us all ready for another lovely day of shopping :)
chrissy- i so sorry hun. ive missed out on alot on these boards and dont know whats been going on. i really hope you will be ok and the other ladies can talk to you about what your going through and help you through it. sending big hugs your way. please try and stay strong lovely! xoxoxox :hug:
HAPPY 2nd BIRTHDAY RILEY!!!!!!!! was it yesterday or today??
hope you get all the pressies you wish for!!! hehe
chrissy- i just read back through your posts.. honey i am so sorry for your loss! im crying for you here and pray so much that you have the strength to get you through this very hard time. i really wish there was something i could do to take your pain and hurt away. im so so sorry hun. i know no amount of words can ease the pain but i will pray for you and your beautiful family! xoxox
Chrissy - Honey I know nothing I could ever say or do will take away the pain you are feeling, I just want you to know how much we all care about you, and love you and the kids so much. I wish I could be there to give you a big hug :grouphug:
I have been thinking all day about what I can say to you Chrissy that will make you feel even remotely a little better about everything, but nothing I say will do that. I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through, how you're feeling, and how the kids are reacting to all of this. I would love to help in any way I can, but I don't really know if there is anything I can do except to be here and listen. Don't hesitate in expressing your feelings. You're loney, upset, angry, scared. All of which is normal during this. It is going to take a long time until you feel 'normal' again. Is there a support group or something in your area that you can go along to maybe? :hug:
Hi ladies
Thank you for all your birthday wishes for Rylee, unfortunately she isn't well today so it has been a bit of quiet day, I didn't send her to creche so it has been a mummy/rylee day, though we did go out for a casual lunch with a friend and her little boy, now she is asleep, a high temperature and just very clingy, though I don't mind doing lots of cuddling especially on her birthday.
Chrissy - I am thinking of you so much, you will be on a rollercoaster ride at the moment, lots of ups and downs and we are all thinking of you, keep remembering Craig and all the times you shared and how he wouldn't want you to be like this, I really don't know how to take your pain away, just be kind to yourself and give yourself lots of time to heal and go through all the emotions that it will take to feel even a little bit remotely normal. Look to your beautiful children to give you joy and comfort. :hug:
Marni - thank you so much for Rylee's lovely present, the fairy top and skirt is gorgeous, great for summer - she was wearing the top this morning, very cute, thank you :)
Okay, girls, I hope you and your families are all well.
BBL
Laurin xxx
happy birthday Rylee honey...hope you are having a fantastic day!!!
Chrissy - RING ME!!!!!! I dont care what time it is...pick the phone up babe.
Hello everyone...hope your all well
I can't say it any better than Jodi Chrissy. We're always here, and it doesn't feel to me like we can do much, but anything we can do, let us know. :hug:
Naww that Rylee's sick on her birthday Laurin! But what a great excuse for extra cuddles. What did you guys get her?
Hey there Ambz! Parties at playcentres are great, we've been to a few lately. Riv's birthday's grand final day, and since Rans & I don't care about the footy, we're gonna head to the play centre, the staff reckon it'll be pretty empty! Which is good, cos Riv's a shy one who gets a bit intimidated by the other kids.
Hey Maz, how's Mateauz's progress going? Is he all fine now? His ticker pic cracks me up, the cute little guy.
Riv's napping (let's all cheer together now! :P), and Si has done THREE poos today! I think he's been snacking on the sly or something...where do they store it all?
Happy Birthday rylee! hope you get better.
:hug: chrissy:hug:
Chrissy- :hug: I wish I had the right words to say to make you feel better. I wish I could just take all the hurt, sadness and lonliness away. Maybe put together a list of ppl you feel comfortable in calling together so when you are feeling like that grab it and let it all out to them. Maybe even just getting outside for a walk to clear you head each day? Try take each day as it comes, get thru each moment as you can.
Happy Birthday to Rylee, sorry to hear she is unwell.
Nelle- You are so un-victorian! Not caring bout grand final is a sin in this state.
I've been sick, think flu cause my temp was up to like 38.7, coughing non stop. Mum was over wed/ thurs looking after me and Ash, she is so good to me. She spent all this money on mat clothes for me too. I think I need to do something nice for her when I'm better.
thanks girls it means alot....
maz thanks for the call, yes you spun me, in a good way, i have been thinking all day i wish there was someone that could tell me something about how he is, and you rang........spoky..funny he picked you.
Hi all.
FIRSTLY HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYLEE! Even if you are sick, I hope you have agood day.
Chrissy - Everything you are feeling is "normal" (if you can say that) you will have good and bad days. At the moment the bad days probably outweigh the good days, but one day the good days will outweigh the bad days. it all takes much, much time. You are only at the start of this stage in your life without your hubby. Remember - cry as much as you need to cry. Be anggry - you are allowed, and be happy to rejoice in the time you had together.
Ambz - Woo hoo for sunshine. Doesn't it make a difference??!! Happy that all the birthday plans are arranged.
Shell - I hope you are on the improve.
I have bough DH and my dad a voucher for an indoor 4x4 track for Fathers Day. They both love 4 wheel driving, so to trash someone's else's vehicles and not their own is a bonus for them!
Happy Birthday Rylee!!!!I hope that you had a good day despite being sick and I am glad that you liked your present.
Chrissy - I'm pretty sure that everything you are feeling is normal but if it gets too much try and find someone to take the kids for a while? If that would help anyway.
Hope everyone else is going well. Less than two weeks until Tiana's operation. I am pretty nervous but will be kept busy next week. John is away from Sunday to Friday and I have a house inspection on Thursday so heaps to do. Just have to find people to have Tiana while I am at work now...
Gosh I have missed soo much.
Happy birthday to all the little ladies, Ambah, Ainsleigh, Vyolette and Rylee. Hope you all had a great day.
Happy Birthday Ruby!!! Two years have gone so quickly. You make me smile with your spunky little attitude!!!
Thanks Annika!!! She loves her books.They are fab!!!
Happy birthday Ruby :)
A huge Happy Birthday Ruby, hope you have a great day.
Laurin-I hope that the pregnancy is going well. You are on the home stretch now.
:happybirthday: Happy 2nd Birthday Ruby!!! Hope you have a wonderful day sweetie!! :kiss:
Hey Helen!! How are you going??