NONI!!!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am so happy for you, good on you hun.
Cindy - Oh no that is terribly heartbreaking. I feel for the poor parents, that would be your absolute worst nightmare.
Has anyone seen Andrea floating around? She hasnt posted in belly buddies for awhile. I remember she was having a bit of a hard time. She just popped into my head as I noticed a do gooder mum laid into her on facebook about using daycare, of course I couldnt resist and had to have my own little comment.....
Anyway just wanted to pop on for a second for Noni, wow exciting news.
hi everyone
cindy - hope the bh have calmed down today, you poor thing... that is so awful about the mother in your group - how devestating, i cant even begin to imagine the pain you woud feel at that. oh i have tears streaming down my face. big hugs, i know that woud really rattle you hearing news like thaat close to home.
Noni - how are you feeling miss preggo!!???
Clare - come back and tell us your stories, that sounds like a v dramatic weekend!
MD - hope you get an ealier op sounds awful and painful
Sherie - LOVE the muffin monster story! he is so cute your little man, what a bundle of fun and cheekiness.
MM - what an awful person to lay into Andie. I was wondering where and how she was too, i hoep she comes back soon
Kate - hope having fun w your mum
Rainy - how is the bling going? any news when you guys will get married?
well girls i really need to start eating better haha im kicking my v habbit but last night (and this morning eeeek) i ate that dipping pizza with garlic sauce hahahaha terrible!! gotta get it together and eat less take away!!
oh cindy how awful!! i didnt even think of sids happening that late oh gosh biiig hugs!!
pap - yeh feeling good been very tired and theres the odd wave of nausia but still very early so feeling pretty good so far..
md - any news on the earlier op?
rain - hows the wedding plans coming? dp and i are considering getting married earlier now that were expecting so that its before this bubba comes..
anyway ive gone all vaig sorry hope everyones having a nice day
Morning Lovely Ladies .. it's been awhile, I haven't forgotten you, just a bit pre occupied.
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Xmas Pres ... boys are getting 6v batt operated bikes from mummy.
Moving ... haha, I never want to let someone else move me again! Without me standing their directing though. When I arrived here (a day after the ex & the truck) I almost died in shock. Everything was just dumped & I could barely get into the house. TBH, I'm still not organised & that was Jan.
Old Xmas Tree's: ... haha, the one my mum had, did her 20 years & then we palmed it off to my then MIL.
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Arte: Alex has been in a single bed for sometime now. Think Jack misses having the company though as I put Alex into his own room at the same time.
Preagainpan: a bit slow here sorry, CONGRATS & hope everything is going okay
Hayley: The teeth Maddie are working on, are they the very back molars? they were alex's worst. Avon wise, where are you located? Thanks for f/b & your support.
Marydean: on the gallstones. I had my gallbladder out after passing out in the casino on night. I hope it settles for you.
Noni: CONGRATS! I've heard there are on false positives on the home tests just false negatives.
JG: Carter has my vote
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Me: ATM, As a few girls no, I have been bombarded with negative comments about being an at home mum with kids in daycare & no matter how that I explained my circumstances, it doesn't seem to matter what I have been through (depression & separation) & that I have been very unwell these last two days, I am just plain lazy. Thanks to Hayley & Kate (& my ex-SIL). Didn't help but whatever her prob is, isn't for me to deal with in that way.
I get up yst to get the boys ready & i spend half of the 70mins i have, in the bathroom, whilst trying to get the boys ready. Managed & got them to daycare early, somehow. So I came home to hopefully sleep off whatever it was that I had. That's when this f/b wars started, cos I mentioned I slept the day away. Still feeling pretty bad this morning but now, I have a sinus headache. not my week.
I ended up with severe sinus infections & was miserable from the headaches. Went through two lots of AB's & its started to flare up again today.
Had a few rough trots but I am doing well. Very tired the last week. Spent Thursday in bed, spent yst in bed (after getting the kids off to daycare & doing the mad dash to the toilet several times) & today, i'm sitting in my rocking chair, catching up on shows on myStar & trying to take it easy.
Then I went to take the boys out on Monday & the car wldn't start. After several calls to NRMA, they came out & a batt cell has gone. So I had to find another batt & I cldn't get that to the Thurs. However, I was supposed to leave for QLD that Thursday for a wedd, but yeah, had to cancel
Boys:
Jack;
Is walking, & climbing, nothing is stopping him now. Got his 3rd canine & his 3rd molar is through. Has been very unsettled during the nites of late.
Alex:
Is toilet trained (when he isn't being lazy). Managed to get through it whilst they were sick. Alex is such a big boy now. When we go out I will ask him if he wants to wear a nappy & he says no. He walks around when we go to town & is loving his freedom.
As of yst, the boys have increased their daycare days. Alex's monday mum has an opening on a monday & offered it to Jack. then their Thursday's mum made an opening on a Tuesday for them both & is looking forward to taking them to Playgroup. I spoke to her briefly about the comments last nite & she kind of said the same my friends are saying, that it is good for them. This morning when we got to the carers I said to Alex, "want to see Annette" & he smiled & nodded. They give them the skills that I can't. & being in a remote area, daycare gives them the chance to socialise & interact with other kids. (haha, if it makes this nasty lady happy I can always put Alex
into preschool as of march next year!)
Hope everyone is well, all things considering, xox
andie - i only just saw the facebook stuff sorry i didnt jump on there and give them a few words of my own!! i didnt realise!! gosh it really got heated on there! hope your not listening to it!! its just crap from self righteous mothers like that who spend their time trying to make everyone else feel bad for their decisions!! everyone needs a break and especially when ur sick!! and as u said they get to socialise and they enjoy it so why not? what she said about kids being treated badly in care dosnt happen everywhere and when u feel comfortable with the carers youve chosen then you have nothing to worry about!!! tell them to shove it!!
as for avon thats me and im in western sydney so i dont think anywhere near you lol..
anyways just wanted to jump on and say that, hope it all makes sence!! hope you feel better soon
Noni, thanks. I'm trying not to listen to it, cos I know I have done nothing wrong & that it actually benefits my kids, but it does hit a nerve at the same time. Yeah we've taken it off screen & doing private slashings now.
Hey Andie! Great to see you hun *mwa*. Look, don't let that crap on FB bother you - she can't possibly know what it is like to be in your shoes as a single mum to two very busy and active little boys until she's walked a mile in them herself. I hate self righteous people like that. It may not be your ideal world either, but you have to do what you can to help you be the best Mum you can be to those dear little boys I'll have to add you to FB and I can give her a serve too I hope you are well again soon though so you are in the right headspace to tell them all to bugger off and leave you alone.
Thanks Trill. Go for it. (Andrea Blackie .. if u need that)
I think the world of you ladies here Thank you for you support.
I actually suprised myself & calmly told her to f off that she has no right to talk to me the way she is & to either change her attitude or stop talking to me.
I'm gr8ful for friends like you girls here on BB. You know how to be supportive of other people. People like you guys are a rare find & you are truely blessed.
andie- i can't beleive that girl on fb. is she really your friend?
i'm having the worst time with lewis atm. last night he slept so badly and at 4am df and i were sitting here looking at each other not knowing what to do while L was screaming his head off hysterically. seriouslly, he was beside himself. i haven't seen him that upset in ages. then today hasn't been much better. he slept in till 8.30am then he refused to eat any breakfast, he had a small drink of milk. then i took him out for a walk with the dog and he was fine. we got back here and he seemed really tired so i tried putting him to sleep at 10.30- took me 45mins, he finally went down at 11.15 after heaps of carry on, only to wake 30 mins later- absolutely bloody hysterical. i just don't know what's wrong. he's sooo upset....
i managed to get him back to sleep at about 12.45 and he's still sleeping but i'm worried for when he wakes up. it's horrible.
sorry for selfish post, i just don't know what to do. he's usually so cruisey and very easy to look after in the day- not like this at all...
Rainy poor little Lewis (and poor you). He has been sick hasn't he? Is it worth taking him to the Dr and having his ears and throat checked? The last time Logan was like that he had a really bad throat infection. He would be fine one minute and hysterical the next. I hope he is ok when he wakes up.
Andie I cant believe all the stuff she wrote. Your a great mum to those boys and its nobody's business how you raise them.
Clare what happened???
I have to run, have 9 week old twins coming for photos. Will BBL.
thanks katie- maybe i shoud take him for a check up. he just doesn't seem to have any symptoms of being sick anymore except for nasty poos.
also..just to add to my whinging post..what can i do about chronic heartburn? i didn't have this last time and it's really affecting me...
Rainy - is he getting molars? N is and has been kind of similar a couple of days, then i see a new pt through on one of them. poor little guy - and poor you!
I had v bad heartburn last time - i used mylanta - dodnt get rid of it but made it more bearable. some ppl say milk or ice cream helps... and try not to lie down for some time after you eat. Yuk, not looking fwd to that if it returns (maybe this bubba will be born with a full head of hair like Mr N was...)
so - come on have a 'vision' of what i am having.... i think a girl but i think thats just bc i already have a boy iykwim! i dont mind either way this time around - but i feel like it is a girl.
noni how do you know timing wise it would be a girl or boy?? i have no clue.
i can't force the visions pp, they come when they come LOL
i can't see any bloody teeth, but before he was pulling at his ear heaps. i've had a good look in his mouth, but nothing...
are you going to find out the sex? did you find out with n? have you thought of any names yet? i thought we had one sorted but the df totally threw me a curveball the other night and threw a new one in the mix which is kind of 'out there' in a way, and now i can't get it out of my head.
i'll have to get df to pick up some mylanta on way home. i can't leave the house with this nightmare!!
Gee Rainy, I don't have a clue what could be wrong with him? Did you try giving him some pandol/nurofen to see if that worked? Maybe you could try it when he wakes up if he's not better. I hope it's something as simple as teething and not him getting sick at all.
& hope everything is going okay
on the gallstones. I had my gallbladder out after passing out in the casino on night. I hope it settles for you.
I've heard there are on false positives on the home tests just false negatives. 
not my week.
I hope you are well again soon though so you are in the right headspace to tell them all to bugger off and leave you alone.
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