See Mildez, you are tending to him before he screams. Entirely different to letting him cry himself to sleep in the name of "no stimulation"!

How long did he sleep on the pillow for? We only have one car, so getting to any appointments means taking DH to work and picking him up. Often means three trips in and out on one day. Always messes with naps. For that reason I'm weighing up whether mothers group is worthwhile. Did you ladies find it helpful?

DH is more of a night owl than I, so he will often take DS from 9-12 so that I can get some sleep. After that I'm on my own, which is totally fine as DH is the one that needs to get up and go to work the next day.