Ugh, that would drive me mental too. It's the equivalent of family members asking if there's going to be any more kids. One of my aunties made a FB comment to me asking me if I'd hurry up and have another. The she started on SIL. SIL's been trying for another for over two years (and is having fertility treatments) and you know my history. Just because we don't broadcast what's going on with every inch of our lives doesn't mean that things are rosy all the time.

Now look what you made me do, Mo.....vent of my own!!!

I think if you have 3 PMSing teens, Phil might be absent! You might be lucky and have it all go smoothly. Got my fingers crossed already for you