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Oh HC, I'm sorry you're going through such a horrible time with your DP. Make sure you do what's best for you and your lil man :hug:
Teresa, I hope it's not gastro for you hun, it's so horrible to have. Take it easy hun xox
Rach, sorry to hear about your dog. GL in your TWW, I haope you've caught that eggie!
Not much to report here, still doing my acupuncture and hopefully my AF comes soon so we can start the TTC thing again. Wee man is good, will be putting him into crache soon, that will be fun and games !!
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miss b - whatever the nausea was has now gone thank goodness! must have been a bit of a bug
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That's good to hear Teresa :)
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gah! the nausea has returned :( i have no idea what is going on. i am 7dpo and now i am starting to think i might be UTD :( i wish it was next week already so i knew. anyone else had nausea start a few days po then to find out they are UTD? had a chat with DH last night and he doesnt even know if he wants another one. rather confused here right now :(
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Not great :(
Yesterday he came over and basically admitted everything was his fault and he said he needed to get help dealing with his anger. I think he expected me to go back to him because when I made it clear I wasn't going to he got quite nasty and tried to take Indy. Mum told him to go and he stormed off.
He called back and was all apologetic again, now he is saying he will get help but I'll believe it when I see it.
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Big hugs HC, wish all this crap wasn't happening to you guys :hug: You're right to stand your ground hun, if he says he's going to get help that's great, but you'll need to see proof first. I hope he's committed to really giving it a crack.
Teresa, I was actually wondering if you could possibly be UTD, but I know where you and your hubby stand on the subject so I didn't say it, hehe. BUT, remember hun, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, baby comes when he/she wants to come :) Will be stalking your news. And BTW, I have heard plenty of times where people weren't ready or not even sure if they wanted a baby or another baby, and then when the pg was confirmed, they got all excited...hope you get the outcome you want hun xox
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miss b - i just spoke to a friend of mine who said i might be too. its so hard. i hated the whole tww when we were trying and now its just worse coz i dont know whats happening. i am sure if i am we would get excited its just right now i cant see myself being happy. i have noticed that my (.)(.) are bigger, sore but thats normal, and i noticed this morning they are more veiny. i hope its my imagination running wild. will definately have a chat with DH about it tonight tho.
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Sorry you are dealing with this ATM HC. Be strong babe and take all the time you need xx
Maybe Teresa! I hope you get the outcome that you want whatever it may be.
I'm 10dpo today and had an acupuncture this morning to protect a pregnancy so hopefully there is one here to protect. Still just have to wait and see. Hate waiting, but I am actually learning to be patient and let be what will be - shock horror!
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rooey - how r u today? i really hope things improve for you!
rach - fingers crossed you got that eggie!
afm, we decided to let things happen if they do happen. i had a chat with DH last night and like me he is concerned about me having another baby here due to it being a country town and with my history, it probably not being appropriate for me to have a baby. having said that, if i am UTD now, there is pretty much nothing we can do about it. so we are just going to wait and see what the next week brings. i am at work for the next 3 days so that will keep my mind occupied until the weekend comes! lol. i noticed the veins more prominent on the milk machines today and very prominent running down either side of the abdomen! could be my mind playing tricks on me tho. sorry if i am a bit self obsessed at the moment.
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Rooey - I hope you are ok. What a horrible situation to be in. Dh and I were fighting quite a bit a few weeks ago and if I had family nearby, I probably would have left for a while. It's good that he can see he needs to get som help. It's really easy to get caught up in moment.
Rach - oh no that's terrible about your dog. How old is it? Our dog is driving me crazy. He chews up Angus's toys and pushes him over and jumps up on everyone. He will be one next month, so I'm hoping things will settle down. We also take him to obedience training and the dog park to help socialise him with other dogs/people. I forget where you live, but a friend of mine uses a service called Bark Busters. It's expensive up front, but then you can call them back anytime free of charge. My friends dog was showing aggression to other dogs, and whatever they told her, she was quite happy with them.
Teresa - The veins and stuff do sound like you might be pg. when I was tcc and on progesterone pessaris, it made that happen too, even before our embryo was transferred, so you could just have high progesterone too. I didn't have nausea straight away - my first sign this time was having a numb feeling in my legs and arms, like pins and needles. I think all the blood was going to my abdomen. I hope it turns out well whatever happens. Is it possible for you to have the baby in Canberra somehow? A friend from play group had a prem baby last time and now she is in some special program at the Canberra hospital. Of coarse if you went into labour they wouldn't have time to transfer you, but they might have some reciprocal arrangement? I'll find out the program my friend is in - Wagga hospital might have one too?
AFM - we just got back from a week in NZ, which was really great. Angus got to feed chickens, sheep, horses and pat day old calves. We also went on buses, planes, ferries and saw helicopters and steam trains. Angus met lots of his family over there and got spoiled. Then today I had my glucose test and midwife appointment. Hopefully all is good with the clucose test, because I had been eating so much sugar. I was 5kg heavier before getting pregnant this tim than last, but I am almost the same weight I was when I had Angus at 15 days over! I'm 26 weeks today and have put on around 12 kgs...
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Hi nat
Thanks I am in Darwin, we've had a bit more info on the situation so he is still with us. We are going to try a couple of things.
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Sounds really promising Teresa! I'm gonna be very excited for you guys if you get a BFP!!
Rach, ooh I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you also, maybe you and Teresa will be in the same belly buddy group again! :)
HC, I hope you're OK hun. I often think of you and wish that you didn't have to go through this :hug:
Nat, wow you're 26 weeks already! I remember for me after 30 weeks time just flew.
AFM ladies, I got an intuitive healing done last Sunday (something my acupuncture lady recommended) and it was great. The lady there said to me that I had a lot of fear and grief in my belly, so she got rid of it. She also said that the healing will bring on my AF, and BAM!!! it arrived the very next day :o So right now it's really heavy bleeding here and I'm crampy as hell, but thank goodness it's here. Now I have to wait till next AF to start my TTC cycle.
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And sheree and Jess! How funny would that be! Here's hoping.
That's awesome your healing worked so quickly.
I admit I was a bit skeptical about acupuncture but took the "can't hurt" approach and I am floored how well it is working for me.
It has changed my whole personality. I was hormonal and moody and unbalanced and horrible to be around and it has settled everything right back down and also put me straight back on track in my cycle. Unreal. Hope it also helps stop another m/c. Time will tell :)
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Hang on, am I missing something? lol. I knew Jess was pg but Sheree as well? Yay!!!!!!!! How exciting! Congrats Sheree :) OMG, there could be a whole new belly buddy group of you guys! Fingers and toes crossed for those in the 2WW.
As for the acupuncture, I agree Rach, it has changed my whole personality as well. I was so stressed and on edge all the time lately but with the needles and the herbs, I'm like, soooooooo relaxed and not fussed with all the small stuff (and not as much with the big stuff). Hope it works for both of us hun!!
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I thought she said so maybe I'm wrong !
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Oh heyyyy you guys! Didn't know this thread was still alive!
I wanna be in a belly buddies again with you all too! Pregnancy is yet to be confirmed over here, I had a 5-day blastie put in last Saturday will get blood results on Thursday :crossfingers:
Have you tested yet Rach? Ooooh I so hope this is it for you!! So awesome to hear the acu is going so well for you too :D
MissB that intuitive healing sounds awesome, how amazing that she brought on AF for you!
teresa, I can't wait to hear how you go over the weekend, when will you be testing?
Nat your NZ holiday sounds fab! Angus must've had an absolute ball! Were the results good with your GD test?
Rooey, what an awful situation you are in right now :( From where I'm sitting, I think it would be in both yours and Indy's best interest to keep some distance from your DP. I'm in no way pretending I know your exact situation, or what's right and wrong for you, but he sounds so manipulative and toxic, I want better for you! :hug:
AFM, waiting for results on whether it's time for #2 to join the family. I always wanted an 18 month - 2 year gap between kids, but I've warmed to the idea of it being closer to 3 years now. Every day I can understand more of Blake's words, so I think that will make it a little bit easier to have a toddler that can communicate well while I am also focused on newborn ;)
Has anyone toilet trained yet? I'm kind of ignoring the signs I'm getting from Blake, lol, I don't want to toilet train yet! He has taken his own nappy off and sat on his potty and wee'd about 3 times now, which is really exciting! But I'm not ready to give up nappies yet, is that weird? I don't want to be in the car, or halfway through food shopping when he decides he just HAS to go to the toilet RIGHT NOW! :lol: Yeah, that sounds really selfish...
Blake still has a dummy for bed time, and a bottle of milk first thing in the morning and last thing at night, no idea when either of those will stop, or if I should be weaning him off the milk and dummy? He's still my baby boy :(
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Throwing extreme caution in the wind but I got a second line this morning :) AF due today. Fingers crossed this one sticks around and is not another heartbreak
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OMG OMG OMG :happydance: :stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl:
....just quietly excited for ya ;) lol
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Oh yay! Awesome news!!!!!!
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Thankyou guys. It's faint but def there on all three -yes I am a POAS loser!! - been testing all week and gave up last night after doing one at midnight after getting home from a friends place and I had a feeling to check it again this morning and there was a definite line there so I did another one incase it was an evap line but seems not the case.
I'll be hanging low for a few weeks until I -if I- get to see a heartbeat. Then I will allow myself to be happy.
Big happy birthday ReeRee!
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Ooooooh that's fantastic news Rach!!!!!! So excited for you hun, quietly jumping up and down until you have your confirmation :) Sending you a truck load of sticky vibes hun. This one just gotta stick!!!! And don't worry hun, I am also a POAS certified addict/loser/queen!! hahaha xoxoxoxox
Happy birthday ReeRee!!!!!!
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Thanks MissB and Rach :D
Did a shift at work this morning, but now DH has surprised me with booking me in for a manicure this arvo, yay! Then a pub meal for dinner, and brekky at Hillarys tomorrow!
Hope everyone else is keeping well :hello:
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Sounds lovely hun, enjoy your day, night and morning!! It's really lovely to be spoilt :)
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rach - :leap: so excited for you! :stickyvibes:
ree - happy birthday for yesterday!
afm, i did a test the other day BFN. thats ok. i spoke to DH and he said it was good and bad that we got a BFN. bbs arent as sore today and nausea has finally gone. pretty sure it was a virus now especially since every second person in wagga thinks its perfectly ok to come to hospital with gastro and infect everybody else! grrr! keep your germs at home people!
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Aww bugger Teresa :( Sometimes when you're not TTC and you think you might be pg and then it's a BFN it's surprising how disappointing it is and you kinda realise you want another bub! All in good time hun :hug:
ps stupid people with gastro at the hossy :wall: I don't know how some people can be so inconsiderate!
Hi to everyone and I hope you're enjoying your brekky this morning ReeRee :)
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miss b - i realised thru this last couple of weeks that i am definately not ready for another baby. having said that, i dont know if i ever will be. i spent the last 2 weeks freaking out almost everyday trying to figure out in my head how i was going to make everything work out, how was i going to handle a pregnancy, work and such, only to feel absolute relief when there was a negative come up. does that sound weird?
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Hi everyone
Rooey - are you ok? Havent heard anything from you for a bit xx
Teresa - no it doesn't sound weird just sounds like you aren't ready :)
Ree - how are you going lovely? Snapped and tested yet?
Meercat - how are you feeling? You must be about 5 weeks now?
How is everyone else?
I'm just sitting in the drs office about to have my blood test :)
Hoping things are all good this time. I have good feelings about it but in saying that I have to believe it will be ok.
Not many symptoms yet apart from sore boobs on and off and twinges and fullness here and there and persistent wet feeling.
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Teresa, that definetely does not sound weird hun! I agree with Rach, you're not ready right now. I remember the first time I was pg, I sort of freaked out (even though we planned this baby!) and found it hard to bond with my baby. Then I lost him and I realised how much I wanted a baby. Then I had Cam, and then when we tried again and I got my BFP, I was a bit worried how we'd handle two kids (hello!!!!! we are old chooks here) even though again, it was a planned pg. Now I can't wait to be pg again realising how hard it is sometimes to have a healthy pg. So I guess I can understand your feelings hun, I always get that 'eeeeek' feeling getting pg, wondering how I'm going to handle it all. I know you've had a traumatic birth with Hamish, so your feelings are totally understandable. When Cam was born I reckon I was so close to having PND I could smell it! I'm sort of worried for those feelings to come back again....:(
GL Rach!!! I hope and pray you have one sticky and healthy bubba on board! :)
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Thanks B:-)
I'm taking a very relaxed approach - going back Monday week to get my referral/results - usually Id be busting to get back in there but - there's nothing anyone can do now but wait and hope for the best! I want to see a heartbeat on my first OB visit so I'm taking my time!
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Teresa I'm glad you got the result you needed :)
Thanks MissB, I was very spoiled and I'm so grateful for it! New handbag, purse, pj's, lip gloss, accessories, books, movie vouchers, money, fairy floss and had my nails done!
Rach my symptoms sound like yours except I'm convinced it means af is impending, lol! Yes I've been POAS and it's still bfn :( I'm 14dpo, or 9 days since the 5-day blastie was put back in.
BT on Thurs, I'll keep testing every morning now but I'm pretty sure I'm out for this cycle :( which sucks majorly - we could have been belly buddies again cos I would be due 31st Dec! Ah well, it ain't over til the nurse calls and says so I guess...
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ree ree- fingers crossed that you get that BFP!
thank you everyone for your support over last week or so. i really havent had anyone else to talk to and you were all here and knew what was going on when i was pregnant with Hamish xx
otherwise AF turned up this morning rather quickly and rather awfully! all i can say is thank god for nurofen plus!
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Stay positive Reeree. I thought I was out as this was the latest bfp I've had ever. What will be will be but I'm hoping for the very best for you xx
AFM I was pretty down yesterday as I was having some mild cramps which I remember as being normal but with my history I was starting to freak a little. Forced myself to relax. If its going to happen again it will regardless of anything I do. Today I'm at the point of my second m/c so one hurdle reached I guess!
I'm going for my follow up pregnancy protect acupuncture session today. Feel like I need it to put my mind back at rest that everything will be ok. EVERYTHING WILL BE OK. It has to be.
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Hi guys
Well we separated, he's started getting some counselling for his issues but I'm not keen to go back at all.
About to spend my first night away from Indy, I don't know why but I'm really scared :(
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Just took him :(
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Oh HC, my heart breaks for you hun :cry: I'm sorry it's come to this, I was really hoping it would all work out. But I am glad you've made the right decision right now for you and Indy. Your little man will be OK, his dad loves him to bits. Huge hugs darling :hug:
Rach, keep your chin up hun, your little one will be OK :) It most likely is digging itself a nice deep hole to live in there! Hope your acupuncture went well today, big hugs and stay positive and strong xox
Teresa, I couldn't live without my nurofen plus :)
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Thanks Rach and teresa :)
Rach hope you had a great acu sesh today, you're right, everything will be ok! :D
:hug: :hug: Oh Rooey, I am so sorry. Have I missed something, how come you're away from Indy hun??
AFM, feeling blue today. BFN again. Had a bit of a crying session tonight, I feel so emotional and my head feels so stuffy. Dreading and willing Thursday to hurry up already. Blergh. Sorry to be a downer guys, just had to let it out somewhere. Time to watch some Game of Thrones, should take my mind off things for about 50 minutes...
