Watch out Cass, it's coming up to the full moon again...
Arte, never feel bad about letting it all hang out with us :hug:. Re the food intolerances, I don't think it works quite the same as an outright allergy, it tends to be more cumulative. So you might be able to get away with small amounts of whatever they're senstive too, but a big hit and the effects last for a few days afterwards. The sort of things that set my friends' son off were often in normal healthy unprocessed food - things like corn or bananas or the brown outside part of the roast chicken,tomatoes, red apples, etc. And the really big one (that took a hwile for the penny to drop) was the bread she was buying. Once she switched to Bakers Delight/started to bake her own there was a huge improvement. Sue Dengate's book is a good place to start for background info.
BTW I'm right there with you on the travel jealousy. I always wanted to travel before I got hitched, gave that up for DH, then he got to swan around the world while I kept the home fires burning. Turkey was a really hard one to swallow for me, with my interest in m/eastern culture, music and dance. *sigh* We'll have our day too sweetie. :hug:

