Babies born~November 16th-30th 2009 #3

Hi Girls - another scorcher in Perth today so cancelled swimming, thought it was too hot to drag Amelia out and the heated pool area is like a furnace on a cool day!

Hi Shayna - that's so cute, I haven't tried Amelia in the mirror yet, might do that and see what happens.

Hi Mon - yay Serenity that's really fantastic! Amelia slept better last night, 10.00 pm to 6.00 am and then fed and went back down till 9.00 am. I'm really upset about Mikayla though are you? My goodness why does that keep happening to her. I wish there was something we could do, makes me so grateful to have my little girl and who cares if they don't sleep much, at least we have them! I hope she's ok, I don't know if I could keep going after so many goes but I hope she does.

Yeah it is very upsetting I wish there was something someone could do, I deff feel very blessed for all my babies...

Me and j have been fighting lately and I'm getting to the point of wondering if the kids would be better off if he moved out so they don't have to witness it along with them suffering and him not helping them to get back at me..I told him about Mikayla and he said you think she would take a hint... I almost pinched him in the face....I hope her Dr's figure it out soon!!!!! It makes me so sad and she's such a wonderful person who doesn't deserve this

Hi Girls - I think I'm getting my first big zit since before being pregnant.....I was hoping the hormones while pregnant would have sorted out my skin, darn it!!!!! Fingers crossed it's just a standard blinder ha ha. I really enjoyed not having to hide my chin from the public :o Oh well, maybe it will take the emphasis off my fat guts ha ha. Geez I'm painting a stunning picture of myself aren't I lol.

Hi Mon - I would've punched him in the face for saying that, how awful. I feel terrible for Mikayla, it's so unfair and yet there's some women/girls out there having kids who don't deserve them and can't even look after them, that p's me off so much. I wish we could help her I really do. Mon, you'd do fine without Jose in the house, you are an amazing mum and more than capable of looking after the kids on your own, you know that. xx

Aww Alison if I was that way inclined I'd go for ya!

I feel bad for Mikayla too, as soon as I saw her :( on FB i knew straight away....

Ruby had a massive sleep today, 3 hours! I hope she sleeps tonight :pray: I doubt she will though, her stuffy nose is sounding alot more snotty and she is sneezing heaps and coughing now too- poor little girl.

Our kiddies are growing up so fast, its very exciting isnt it? Every day Ruby does something new, she constantly has her tongue sticking out and blows bubbles, oh and the conversations she holds - so cute I could just squeeze her!

Shucks thanks Bec I'm chuffed! :p lol

Ruby is so adorable. Is she sucking on everything like Amelia? Everything is going into Amelia's mouth and she's dribbling so much her clothes get soaked ha ha. I love the bubbles, how cute is it, Amelia makes a sound when she tries to do raspberries as well, it's hilarious! They are growing way too fast but gee I love this age. :p Oh and thanks again for making me aware of Mikayla, I hadn't checked her FB in the last week for updates. It's just so unfair. :crying:

Yeah Ruby is sucking on everything! She pulls her top up to suck on it - she hasn't quite found her toes yet! I think it is cute seeing babies sucking on their toes lol. Hope it doesnt start off a fetish :o I dont bother putting a bib on Ruby, I figure there's no point washing her clothes and a bib...

Oh how funny Amelia does the same, was just telling my mum that she has stretched yet another singlet today because she pulls it up to put in her mouth! She hasn't found her feet yet either, that will be funny though. Isn't it amazing how they do certain things at certain ages, it's kinda freaky. Nature is a funny thing.:p

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Okay!!!

I haven't read the last thread on the updates, so i'm a bit out of whack. Just thought i'd pop in and make myself seen! haha

Everyone here is great. Theo is just growing growing growing! Hes getting very chubby, got two little rolls on his legs, hehe, they're just too cute! Its very sweet seeing how much he loves kaili, his eyes follow her around everywhere. If she's in eye sight, he's a happy baby ;)

Well the trip to clermont for the funeral was surprisingly great! Asides from Kaili getting car sick and chundering everywhere :o haha. But we made it there and back with only one 10 minute stop! Theo slept the entire way! :) And thank you natty for your comment on my bfing, havent had a chance to respond to that thread either!

kymmy.,.... commmee onn!! haahahaha, I'm in suspence! Can't wait to hear the news!

okay
sorry for no persies. in a rush
love you all
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Hello Ladies,

WORST DAY EVER!!!!!!!

I was in and out of the car ALL day and poor Archie was soooo hot and bothered and GRUMPY!!

I started bleeding again yesterday so i went to the Dr today who sent me straight away for an ultrasound and a blood test (hcg)..... they let me in for the u/s straight away as it was 'urgent'. They said it looks like I have retained 'products' (i hate that word) so the Dr wants me to go to the hospital for a D&C :wall: I told them i wasnt keen for a D&C (who would be??) so they sent me away with antibiotics for now but i will have to go to the hospital next week.
The sonographer said thats why i would've been getting feint positives (my theory was right!... told ya i should be a doctor.. haha)...

But i've just read the report and it says:

"Mild to moderate amount of retained products or pregnancy seen within the endometrial cavity"....................

HUH??? So what if i am pregnant? Would they just have gone ahead with the D&C anyway!!???
I get the results for the blood test tomorrow and i'll be P*SSED if i am pregnant! They would've just let me go down there tonight for a D&C without even confirming if i am pregnant or not! And if i hadn't read the report i wouldn't have even known!

AAAARRRRGGGGGHHHHHH!!!! I feel so angry and sad and emotional and tired and upset!!!!! Also my mum had to ruch my dad to the hospital today cos he has a severe infection in his leg (he thought it was gout but ended up in the Kalgoorlie hospital last night as he couldn't drive his truck any further.. he is an interstate trucky ) He ended up making it back to Meckering and switching drivers but by the time he got home his whole leg was lumpy and pussy and he was delirious and couldn't even WALK!!!

SO BAD BAD BAD DAY!

AND POOR MIKAYLA TOO!!!!
Can you tell i'm upset???!!!!

Love you all!
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Kymmie that's horrible, on the scan does it look like retained placenta or a pregnancy bubble lol

so I got in a fight and asked jose to pick up his things today and move out, I've been miserable for awhile constant fighting and ptting ppl down calling me names and I am over it, he never listens to me and if I ask him to do so
ethibg he won't so it's really the kids who suffer....so yesterday he was suposed to come straight home cos he said them were gonna start pays fortnightly so he wouldve been home around 3ish cos they finish early on Friday , I call him at 4:30 and he's at Morley cod they gave him a cheque and that's the bank their signatures are at( have asked him a hundred times to ask them to get the sig sent to the bank neAr us) he likes it being there so he can go to the pub after so he's at the pub wouldve Been for about an hour so I have a go at him for not telling me or giving me enough notice( he wouldn't let me go to my cousins last band recital of the yr for an hour cos I didntgivr him enough notice) so anyway I have a go at him and say don't bother coming home.....now any smart man would know you are not actually telling him to not come home you are telling him to come home faster but he avtuall decides to do what I ask then doesn't he so i call him a couple hours later and he's still out drinking cos I said not to come home :wall: and he's drunk and starts having a go at me about how horrible I am blah blah blah so I told him he's no angel either and I want him to pick up his stuff tomorrow

does anyone know if he tries saying I can't kick him out if I can cos the house lease is in my name?

Sorry to hear that Mon...

Just quickly, i am going in tomorrow for a D&C. I am spewin....

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Awww Kymmie that's horrible hope it goes well

Well he didn't come get his stuff and I DIDNT call him today yay !!!!!!!! I asked my 16 yr old sis and her bf to move in as they wanted to move out anyway and it will be nice to have extra help with money and time

Actually feeling really good about it like I'm not upset about it, a lol upset but not wanting him to come back

hey kymmy, i'll be thinking of you tomorrow :hug:
I hope it all goes well... x

Mon - thinking of you too, hope everything is working out and your happy which ever way you go. You know we'll be here whichever decision you make. Youre a strong woman. :hug:

I can't stop thinking about Mikayla.. faark i feel horrible. I wish there was something we could do. I went into her BB group, it was a little boy :( She would be such an amazing mummy.. why does this keep happening??

AFM theo has only just gone down! its midnight! :o bugger! Totally ruined my diet this week too madame - pizza, redrooster, cakes... crap! Not looking forward to weigh in at all! Think i might be super healthy now till wednesday to try and avoid gaining anything - although i have a feeling the damage has already been done! but last weeks weigh in my total loss added to 9.8kg! totally stoked. just hope it stays that way!

Serenity slept from 8-5:30 I went to bed at 8:30 to 5:30 but woke up feeling a bit sad trying to remember I have 4 wonderful kiddies but he hasn't even called or come to see the kids or get his stuff so I just wonder what he's doing that's so damn special but then I don't want to know lol looked over my bills and money will be tight I have 200 a fn left after rent and bills for food and my sis and her bf are only getting a lol from cl which sucks cos I don't wanna ask for lots so I'm hoping he pays me cs cos I was gonna ask him for 200 a week but he only has to pay me like 130 according to cs so I don't really wanna get them to collect it , it's a bit overwhelming that they pay us so lil so we struggle while they live it up, but he won't be seeing the kids til he pays me *sigh*

aww mon.. i don't know what to say :hug:
i hope he helps you out, you and the kids can't live on 200 a fortnight. Is there anyway possible you could get a partime job? like tupperware, or learning ladder? something that you could chose your own hours etc. learning ladder would be good, cause people wouldn't care if you took the kids with you... just a thought.

thinking of you, hope it works out. and i hope he realises that his kids are the most important thing xx

Well I have 200 left after bills a fn then my sis anh her bf will give me 140 a fn each and i was thinking of doing Avon or something

Hi Girls - I haven't been on for a couple of days so am a bit behind!

Hi Mon - sorry to hear about things at home, sounds like you've made the right decision though so you keep at it, things will get better. Good idea on the Avon though, give it a shot, you could end up being mega rich lol, I have heard of that happening!

Hi Kymmy - I'm so sorry to hear you have to have a D&C, so is what they say meaning you have leftover "stuff" from your pregnancy with Archie or is something to do with being pregnant after that?? Good luck and hope you're feeling ok. xx

I have had a nice weekend so far, enjoying it being a long one as it means I get an extra day with DH at home tomorrow lol. It was my oldest nephew's 20th birthday yesterday - I remember changing his nappy, scary though ha ha so we went to my sister's for a barbie and a swim. Because it's been so hot here the pool was 32 degrees, beautiful! Amelia loved it as usual and in the evening when she was having a sleep I had a very relaxing swim....I love night swims and I just floated and chilled, gosh it was beautiful. Today we're just slothing at home, I've done a bit of Amelia's scrapbook but it takes ages just to do one page - I'm not very good at it so am a bit indecisive with what to do......anyway DH wants to go to the nursery now and get some plants. Amelia's been good although I think we're going through another growth spurt, she's been hungrier than usual - gone back to 3/3.5 hourly feeds instead of 4 hourly feeds and Friday she had a rather grumpy unsettled day - guess the heat didn't help but I did stay home in the aircon so I don't think it was that. She's been waking more again at night, not for a feed but just a little whingey, doesn't cry as such just whimpering, the dummy normally fixes it but it's still hard getting up a few more times to do that again when you're used to sleeping through uninterrupted, how rude lol!

Anyway, best go make myself presentable if we're going out in public. Hope you're having nice weekends, aside from the crappy bits some of you are experiencing! xx