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So I've been really ****ty thinking jose was at his mates and wasn't coming to see his kids but turns out they dropped him at the traino on Friday night and haven't heard from him since, I've called two hosp and the police and he wasn't there so I'm waiting for the police so I can do a missing persons report
... holy crap mon..
i hope everything is ok :hug:
WTF!!!!! Far out Mon I hope he's ok, keep us posted. :pray:
Hi Girls its been a few days, Ive been really busy and havnt had much free time.
Kym- Hope the D&C went ok today, I had one January last year after I had a miscarriage. Its uncomfortable for a few days but you should pick up again soon, poor girl xx
Mon- Whats going on? Hopefully he is just taking some time out and having a think about things. Keep us informed, are you ok?
Telly- I had one of those nights last night with Ruby, but when she woke up and smiled at me, hmmmm, all I could do was kiss her!
Natty- Hows thing? Where ya been chicky??
Alison- That swim sounds so nice, I havnt been for a swim yet. Has Amelia had a reaction to the chlorine? I guess not or you wouldnt keep taking her in, der!
Hope all you other lovely's are well xxx
hi ubba just on my mobile now so i'll keep it short. mon i hope your dh is found and kymmy my thoughts are with you. haven't had a chance to post we have been so busy hopefully tomorrow i will get a chance to post. love you guys :)
Hey girls.. I'm on my phone so I'll make it quick too! I'm in recovery, all went well, waiting to see dr again... I want to know what they found.
Mon I hope everything is okay with Jose! Goodlyck with everything! I'll post properly tomorrow when I feel better. Can't wait to go home.. So bored.
Love you guys heaps xxxxx
oh i just want to cry for everyone...
i hope all is well kymmy, thinking of you
mon i hope jose is ok and sorts his stuff out
telly- dont stress on a crappy week, i hada shocker and still lost 1.6!!!!!!
i cant stop crying for mikayla
hope everyone else is good, sorry 1 handed typing
harper is going well
xox
Morning Girls - public holiday in Perth and DH is having a sleep in while I'm up but wanting a sleep in, nice for some! :rolleyes: Amelia has been waking up anywhere from 4.00 am on the last few days, I manage to get to about 6.00 am before having to feed her but it means I'm up and down a few times before then to put the dummy in her mouth. I know DH works in the week but all weekend I've been getting up to her so it would've been nice to have one day I could have a sleep in. I swear they think because you don't work you don't deserve a sleep in. Makes me a little mad I must say. Amelia must be going through a growth spurt as she's been out of sorts the last few days, feeding more and waking more in the night - it's strange too because whenever I go into her room she's still asleep but stirring not crying so not sure what that's about but oh well, we go with all the changes don't we girls!
Hi Mon - have you heard anything from Jose? I hope he's ok.
Hi Kymmy - are you ok today? What were the results? Poor girl I hope you feel better soon.
Hi Madame - isn't it a crappy week, everything seems to be happening at once with everyone. I too can't stop thinking about Mikayla, I feel so terrible for her, it sux, it really sux! On a positive note I'm glad Harper is doing well - one of the girls in my swimming class's daughter is called Harper :p And congrats on losing 1.6 kgs even if you had a bad week, geez, that would be a good week for me if I got on the scales and they were 1.6 kgs lighter. I'm starting to think all you fully breastfeeding girls are even luckier than just being able to feed, it helps with weight loss too doesn't it? I really want to get into the walking but with 5 days above 35 and some days into the low 40's there's been no chance! I was going to do a mums and bubs fitness class tomorrow but it's going to be 35 and the room has no airconditioning so I think I'll pass.....either that or I'll pass out lol!
Well, might go get myself some breakfast - I feel like cranking up the stereo to wake up DH, aren't I horrible........I so wanted a sleep in today! Poo bum!
Hello Ladies..
I am feeling pretty crappy this morning. DH got up and got me some panadol early this morning. My throat is really sore from where they had the tube going down it and my tummy is really tender.
Gosh that was horrible. I am so glad it is over! I am spewing that the whole time i was pregnant and during labour and birth i managed to avoid the hospital, then had to go in for this! I just hate the thought of being asleep and not knowing what the heck they are doing to you!
You're right Alison, it seems like a bad time for everyone lately! My poor daddy is still in hossy.. his leg is soooo badly infected. I am so worried about him. It was funny though, while i was waiting to have my procedure i went to visit my dad cos we were in the same hospital!
Mon: Has Jose showed up yet?? I hope so... :hug:
Madame: Good on you for losing 1.6kg!! I was looking at your pics a while back and you are such a stunning looking girl!! No wonder your kids are so gorgeous!
Telly: You've done such a great job of organising the pressie for Mikayla! You're such a lovely one! Thanks so much for doing it... I (and i am sure everyone else) appreciate it so much xxxxxxx
Hello everyone else :hello:
AFM: My darling, gorgeous, beautiful, handsome Archie was AMAZING yesterday! We got to the hospital at 9am and i didn't go in for the d&c til 4pm and the whole time he was an ANGEL! He either slept, fed or laughed and smiled! And he was so well behaved for DH while i was in there too! I was so worried at how he would go but he was just awesome! I had to fast all day so they had me on a drip to keep my milk supply up. I think i have lost some weight cos i feel really skinny today. I didn't eat or drink for 24 hours though so i suppose thats one way of losing weight!! DD stayed with our neighbor (who is about 40 years old with no kids and who loves Brit to death! Brit says she is her 'best friend' !! They are both really into horses and hang out together alot! It is quite funny!) and they went to the shops and bought me a pressie... it was a copy of the local paper and magazine, a can of Rexona deodorant and a packet of nail files all paid for by Brit! How cute is that!!!?)
I might go back to bed for a bit.. hopefully i'll wake up feeling better.
Have a good day everyone.. isn't it great that we all have got eachother for love and support?! Love you guys :grouphug: xxxx
Hi girls!
As promised here I am lol
Kymmy did the docs give you an indication of what they found? I hope you recover quickly from the op..Archie was such a good boy for you, maybe he has a 6th sense? ;)
Hi Alison, yep I think it is going to be the story of our lives now. Im over being pi55ed at dh about sleep lol he is pretty hopeless with the no boobs situation but I do take advantage of the afternoons when dh comes home and entertains her. I get to have some good old fashioned shower time haha and sometimes I even get to finish dinner off lmao :rofl:
Hi Madame good on you for the weight loss :)
HI Ubba I know how you feel...busy much!? I cant get a spare moment, most of my days are accounted for, I get together with some friends on Mondays, MG on Tuesdays and then the rest of the week fills up pretty quickly.. And I only have one kid lol...I cant imagine how you do it.
Hi Telly!!!! I hope you and dh got that bf thing sorted. Isnt it crap when someone points out something after the fact? I get really upset if ppl think I have been rude or thoughtless intentionally...Sometimes I intend it tho hardie har...
Mon has Jose been found yet?
Afm, V is so cute, lots of cackling laughter, smiles and tears aswell lol. She is still in 000 and some stuff is still quite loose. I love her sooo much in the mornings I take her into bed with me or us and she giggles and talks and loves a cuddle...Later though she prefers to be facing out but still held, fussy little so and so and she is still very distressed when doing farts and sometimes poos which makes me question if something is wrong in her belly. I have given her gripe water a couple of times but not sure if it really does anthing..
XXX Love you ladies
Kymmy - Pretty much what natty said - have the drs said anything about what they actually found? I can only imagine your frustration, avoiding the hospital during the entire pregnancy, the birth, and having to go in now for a d&c.. :hug: So long as you and achie are healthy, thats all that matters. Thats very sweet that brit went and got you a pressie with her own money.. naw what a gorgeous girl. lol on the deoderant :lol: And yes.. we are all incredibly lucky to have eachother to talk to. I often recomment BB to friends, but i know they don't really take note. I just think every mum should join.. its such an incredible network of people.. so much love an support! From losing a baby :( , to having a baby :) ... ive shared so much with you guys, i just love you all! :grouphug:
natty - my bfing issue is not longer an issue. I havne't really thought much about it since all of you lovely ladies posted your thoughts. I told DH that it was making me get a complex, and he said not to worry, if i didn't think anything of it than it obviously wasn't anything to worry about in the first place. But yep, it aggrevates me when ppl bring up something afterwards, like why couldn't you say something at the time? dhead. V sounds like such a cutie. By the sounds of it Theo is a monter compared, but i suppose its better to have a big boy than a petite one. Theo is now wearing mostly 0's. Although some 00's still fit (but quite snuggly). Havent had him weighed in about 6 weeks... haha, i'm so much more relaxed the 2nd time! Must go and do it this week. I hope her belly isn't giving her too much pain, but she sounds like generally a happy baby - so maybe its nothing to worry about.
Alison - yeah i'm with natty, ive given up on the sleep ins! haha! just comes with being a mum i think. Dads have it too easy sometimes. In the meantime - cranking up the stereo sounds like a brilliant idea! haha!
Annyway, AFM not much happening. My house looks like a bomb has hit it, but i'm not really fussed! haha! went to playgroup today, one of the mums there started crying, saying that he DH is calling her a lardass and other horrible names, and she thinks he's going to cheat on her :( crap! What do you say to that?? i just gave her cuddles, and she cried.... didn't know what else to do. And as for the card too ladies, its not just me, everyone has to chip in their bit too, fowarding it on and what not. We all deserve a pat on the back. hehe.
Madame - hot mumma losing 1.6!!! And i TOTALLY agree with kymmy, gee you are a STUNNING woman! you look like you belong on a magazine cover - a natural beauty ;)
love you all
xx
Hey everyone
Kymmie glad it went well
Sorry I though I pressed send but obviously didn't he came home late yesterday arvo met some random ppl and was drinking and "smoking" I almost killed him so he's now living on the couch cos I'm to damn nice and his stuff is in the boys room and to keep me strong niesha is now in my bed with me and serenity is in her cot in my room lol
Still seperated and no dtd so I'm doing good I think in the long term we will work it out but I said were not getting back til we sort ourselves out and he deals with his debts and alcohol problems and learns to come home when he says he will and I will deal with things I think I need to....
It's been really nice having my sis here and we haven't killed each other yet lol
aaawwwwwwww:redface:
im blushing
kymmy and telly- is it a madame fanclub now? thanks girls. you're all too kind.
lost 1.6 yes, but put on 700g last week. we did manage to make 2 cute kiddies, hope little harper doesnt get my genetics- i have some what of a large behind and legs, poor girl. at least she looks a little more like me now, rather than my dh. tee hee hee- im cuter than he is :lol:
on the magazine shots- ill post a photo from our wedding album that is my favourite and actually looks like it should be a bill board
telly- you are a sweetheart in every way. too nice for your own good. there need to be more telly's in the world. :loveshower:
hows your ww going? theo in size 0's? wow! what a great bb mumma you are! tully is 19 months and in size1!!! hows that cutie kaili going??
kymmy- hope your dad is getting better. i hope you are feeling ok about all this hospy stuff. poor darlin, doing so well to avoid it all. i hope you get some answers soon and recover well. britt is a stunner and gets her sweetness from you too! what a cutie gift giver! maybe she was tryin to tell you something with the rexona :rofl:
oh and did i mention how much i love archie!!!!!! oh my is he cute! great pics on fb!
i love all my bb girls too:grouphug:
we laugh, cry, vent and look after each other. id love us to be able to meet up sometime, wouldnt that be amazing???????
mon- is everything ok??????
hi billy, snowy :hello:
natty- i just love all the pics of you and v- im never in any with my kiddies...im always hiding behind that big black slr taking them!
harper is in 000 too, and she has so much cute stuff we were given that im trying to put her in- its like dress ups every day. all dressed up and no where to go. she's in her sunday best and i have a crappy pair of trackys on, spew on my shoulder and panda eyes from not taking mascara off 3 days ago. stunning huh.....
she is super cute smiling and giggling too- even at 4 am...love it! she gets sooky if im not holding her too. dh doesnt get how i dont get much done during the day- he'd probably let her scream and do the friggin dishes, but i dontcare really.
ubba- oh i hear ya on the busy too. and i only have 2 kids! it is tough though, i think even with just one bubba!
afm- things have been a bit tense with dh and me- stress from work i think and im super emotional and usually take things the wrong way. its ok, just a bit crappy. everyone has it im sure. we are just havinh some staff issues and are in the country so its tough.
harper is just beautiful. she is such a happy smiley baby. shes talking, smiling, watching her hands, nearly rolling over :o sleeping well and feeding well too. i just lover her gorgeous little face. a bit unsettled tonight, but she was so tired and was fighting it. she screamed for an hour or so, wouldnt take boob, or rock to sleep or anything that usually settles her and i was like, how do people who have this all the time deal with it!
i was going nuts! i am so lucky. she rarely cries x
my little tully is just fabulous too. i just love him to bits. my heart melts when i hear "mama!" hes such a sweetie!
i love you girls so much, thanks for listening to my rubbish:loveshower:
x sarah x
Hi Girls!
Hi Mon - I'm glad Jose is ok, he sounds like he needs a few lessons in time management and consideration of others lol. Stick to your guns girl, he really needs to sort himself out, don't you give in! :)
Hi Madame - your photo on FB looks stunning, it does look like a Billboard ad, you should've entered that in one of those bridal magazine competitions! Harper is such a cutie by the way and Amelia is in 000's still too hee hee - she's started to chub up so not sure how much longer - it's more her length I'm worried about ha ha!
Hi Kymmy - are you feeling better today? I hope so xx
AFM - well, not sure if it was a fluke or Amelia's growth spurt is over for now but she went down at 10.00 pm and didn't wake up until 7.30 am today, yay! I gave her a bit more in her bottle last night and she took an extra 20 mls so I think her appetite has gone up a notch so will keep trying that. I figure if I overfeed her she'll throw it up as she never throws up and that's a good indication for me. I've been quite excited she's not a spewy baby, you watch, she'll be one when she's older which is when I DON'T want it, I have a phobia about vomit, although baby vomit doesn't bother me cause it's just milk anyway! Oh and I tried pumping a few times yesterday and I got absolutely nothing until 9.00 pm last night and even then it was only 10mls!!! You girls with lots of milk are so lucky, not sure what was going on yesterday but I'm starting to worry it's going completely. Will have to keep at it today and see how I go. Well, another day of 35 degrees, it's cooling down tomorrow - sounds weird as I love summer but I could handle a day of snuggling under a blanket cuddling Amelia.
Oh and can you believe it, we're all around the time we got pregnant, mine's coming up in the next week I think, I remember I ovulated on the 3rd March and I think I found out I was pregnant around the 15th or something. I have it on my fertility chart somewhere, will have to get it out and have a squiz. So in saying that, we have almost been "online" friends for 12 months! I wish we could all meet too, maybe one day. I love you guys too, let's be friends forever! :grouphug:
Good Morning Ladies!
Dear Madame (haha)
My ww is going ok.. haha. Nah its not that bad. My super bad week i dont think will end up that bad, i weighed myself this morning to see what the damage was, and im down 200 grams (mind you 200grams is the difference between a bowel movement, haha, so its probably nothing!) But i'm feeling so good. My clothes are loose on me, and i think my skin is looking nicer too :) I've even started getting my libido back! teehehe! Last weeks weigh in i was 85kg neat! :) Much better than a couple of months ago!
I know, my boobies must be doing a decent job i think! Mind you its really only some clothes that are 0 (like jumpsuits, body suits, overalls), other clothes are 00's (shorts and shirts), but he is definately turning into a little heffalump - hes just adorable, love him to bits!
Kaili is doing really well too, she is getting over a case of tonsilitis (sp), so has been pretty sooky the last week, but coming good now. I was looking at her last night, she was sitting on my lap having a cuddle, and gosh.... i was getting all sentimental! I can not believe how big she is getting, how clearly she talks and communicates... she is a real little girl now. She hasn't changed a bit in the face, still those gorgeous black eyes..but her body is growing! Actually she now even goes to the toilet completely by herself. Even if the attachment isn't on (to stop her from falling in, haha), she just hovers over it! its crazy! clever girl ;)
Wow your wedding photos are beautiful! I would love to see more! You guys definately look like you belong in a wedding magazine! Thats a bummer that you and hubby are having problems, must be so stressful owning your own business! When i worked in hospitality, staff was always an issue, they would just plow through so many employees. Not sure if its the same down south - but up here chefs don't seems to be the most reliable people! And neither do waitresses either! I hope you guys manage to find some perfect employees and get over this hurdle sooner rather than later :hug:
You kids are just perfect. You can definately tell that they're siblings, its just gorgeous. I love the photo of tully touching her nose, naw how sweet! I bet he's a great big brother! This morning Theo was lying on the bed, and i put Kaili's Makka Pakka toy in his arms, he was playing with it (kinda.. haha as much as they do), and Kaili cracked the biggest tanny!! haha! "FEO - ITS KAILI"S!" bahahaha. Oh how much she loves her makka pakka! So we might have to work on the whole 'sharing' thing!
ok, now typing one handed
alison - thats an awesome sleep from miss amelia! definately sounds like the little bit of extra milk helped her out. dont stress about not getting much milk when expressing, there is nothing wrong with formula, your beautiful girl is growing and is healthy, thats all that matters ;) I loved the photos of her with the flower behind her ear too... my golly gosh what a cutie!! And you're right, her lips are so kissable! hehe.
Wow i can't believe its been a year already! How quickly time as gone by. So glad i met up with all you ladies, best thing ever. It would be awesome if we could all meet up one day.. maybe it will happen, who knows!
Mon - I'm glad jose is safe and sound, grr id be cranky at him tho! how much stress he put you through.. I hope it all works out, and he sorts everything out. And thats great news that your sis and you are getting along well.. definatley a good thing! I think me and my sis would have killed eachother! haha!
Ohh talking of my sis too ladies, she got married on tuesday last week! :o And i found out through Facebook!!! hahahahaha!! She's holidaying in america atm, and her and her fiance got married by elvis, in las vegas!! how cool is that! :)
Okay, now that i've finished my novel, haha
i hope i haven't put you all to sleep!
lots of love
telly
gotta love a shotgun wedding! go elvis, much cheaper than mine i bet!
:loveshower: my cousin just had a baby girl! :loveshower:
Renae Amilia
Congrats to your cousin Telly!!!! And your Sis!!! How fun to be married by Elvis lol :)
Well you girls know how my awesomely expensive pram had to go in for a warranty fix??? I asked them to give us a loan pram that faced me just to see how V went...and she likes it lol..waaay better than ole forward facing cant see mummy pram! So it was a strider and I feel crap about spending even more money (sound familliar Alison? lol) so I ebayed one and got it for 99 bucks and I picked it up yesterday from in the Blue Mountains (half hour away). I have scrubbed it all up and washed the material and it looks good! So now I have 2 massive prams lo, it would have been better if the second one was smaller but the strider actually fits in my boot better than ole front facer..dammnit...Now I have to decide if I will sell the front facer but it will be at a loss or just store it and use it as our later on pram (Its reeealy good for running with and the strider is definately just a walking on cement type pram compared....) What to do... Im so excited I have packed it ready to go so V and I can g walking today, I really want her to be okay in it you know...The first day we had the loaner she was in it for a few hours while we went to a big shopping centre, dh and I couldnt believe it lol.
V slept 11 hours the night before last then last night was up twice to pay me back! She is soooo cute I just have to kiss her little face all the time and she laughs when I pretend to munch on her..Bath times are heaps of fun now she is big enough to sit in the little moulded bit and have a good kick around, she always stares at my watch and engagement ring, lol expensive taste already! DH thinks its funny she likes diamonds already haha
oops gtg V is awake and we are going walking!!!
XXX Natty