Hmmmm - I have been having AF type cramps for a week now and some bloating (as if my tummy needed to be any bigger) but no actual bleeding. Am also feeling really tired and blah and had to go to bed on Sunday cos I felt sick in the stomach. So...is AF on her way? Could I have the cramping but no actual bleeding? Did AF take longer to show up after your baby?

OR...could I be - gulp - pregnant? DH and I have only DTD once since DS was born - about 3 weeks ago - and used no contraception 'cos DS is fully bf (but sleeping 8-10 hours overnight and I didn't factor this in). I am too scared to POAS - I can't believe I actually want to see AF...