Tan I have one word for you - SHAPERS! Those undies that come up to under your bra and suck it all in are a God send to us ladies who have had c-sections! I'm even going to wear them under my bathers, he he! Gotta wear a one piece though, no bikini ever again for me!

I know how horrible you feel, I felt awful up until about three months after DD was born. I haven't lost weight BFing which I'm devestated over, ALL of my girlfriends did. I tried dieting and my milk supply really suffered so I'm resigned to the fact my body isn't mine until DD is weaned at about 1 yo.

Get your hair coloured and buy yourself a summer dress. You are a beautiful woman, give yourself time your body will be yours again soon...