Help..... AF has gone MIA.... I havent seen her for over 15 months.....

I gave birth in June 08, and demand fed my DS. My last BF was around 20 November 08. And here it is, January and still no sign of her... And I did a HPT, a week ago, and I am not PG... ...

I really want to get properly into TTC, and I dont think I have had any signs of O but my CM was never very reliable.... I know there are no cut and dry rules for the return of AF, but if any ideas or thoughts on when I might expect to see a return would be helpful...

I feel like I am 12 again, waiting for my first AF visit, and it is not a fun feeling...

TIA!!!!!