Hiya,

I had an investigation of the 'downstairs' area this morning to check how things are going. I've noticed that my vagina is very big and open still. I know it's only been 4 weeks but it looks totally gross now. I'm almost thinking that I ripped towards my anus (sorry!!) and that he hasn't stitched me up properly (apparently I only got 2 stitch on the outside and a few on the inside and that's it after a fairly traumatic birth). It's gotten me a bit upset just thinking that he hasn't done it right and has left me with a massive opening down there. It's totally put me off sex with DH because it looks totally horrible and I wouldn't be able to let him look at it or even do anything down there.

I hope someone could give me some advice or should I just wait for my 6 week checkup.

Thanks in advance.