Hi ladies,

I gave birth to my son nearly 4 months ago and DH and i started DTD again about 8 weeks after. I had a quite bad third degree tear but it healed quite well and i had minimal pain with the stitches. The problem is now that it feels quite different down there, i feel smaller and tighter, plus have extra dangly bits that i think are scar tissue.

Sex has been uncomfortable/painful and i hardly make any natural lubricant any more and have to always use lube (kills the mood when we have to stop in the middle so i can lube up!). I havent orgasmed with penetrative sex and have only managed one or two very mild o's through the use of a vibrator (externally only). I figured it would take a while to get things back on track but its been nearly 3 months now and constantly being on the brink of orgasm during sex but never quite making it is driving me insane!!!!!!!

DH feels bad because he thinks he is hurting me, which it kinda is because im so small now, with little lube and DH is quite large, not to mention the SEXUAL FRUSTRATION!!!!!!!!!!

HELP ME COME!!!! PLEASE!!!!