hysterectomy options and advice

[ashie]

i have a bleeding problem which hasnt been found or fix (even though so much testing and medications since 2008).
ever since having DS1 its been happening, and only stops when utd lol.
every case i hear similar to mine is the same result a hysterectomy.
i am not finished having kids i want one more (but that will mean 4 in a 4 year period) and try to get dh to talk about this he doesnt say much (but he wanted the snip but may as well i get done to will fix those both problems)
i have researched this i think i would like to keep my ovaries and cervix (defently ovaries cause keeping your own hormones this much better option)
i've already had 3 c sections, so i dont even know if i can have a fourth, and if we choose to have another can i get uterus removed when having c section?
what side effects is their from having hysterectomys?
i sort of want to be prepared i dont want one unless i do have another child or if we choose not too, i dont want to do something ill regret IYKWIM.
this bleeding problem is horrible, it just spots or flows whenever it likes, (sometimes lucky to get a week off but then its back with force).
i just making things so final, but i also dont know if i could be happy with never being utd again and thats what i tell dh i know its so close together but we wouldnt change our boys and they'll always be close and in age so all those little terrible stages only happen at once IYKWIM.
thankyou for listening and any advice is so appreciated (am going to see my doc soon with a head full of ideas and not going blind into this options and decisions)