Sarajo - only 5 months??? hehe I only just felt like I got mine back after 2 1/2 years since dd was born and then i found out I was pregnant again!! Poor DH has had to go through all that torture again...

I think leaving bubs with someone for a few hours is a great idea (unfortunately its a bit harder with 2 kids as in my case)

Hope you find the missing libido soon!

Bel