My hubby makes me a coffee every morning. When I bf DS2 he asks if I want a drink of water. He puts the girls to bed everynight so I can put DS to bed. He supports me by doing little things like cleaning out my car and putting fuel in for me (hard with 5 kids), he sweeps the floor everyday and takes DS2 when I just need a shower. He appreciates my need for time out and will often suggest going out with DS2 (fully bf so we're a package atm) and he will stay home with the big kids. I'm lucky my DHs idea of time out is being home to play video games or watch movies while the kids sleep, I'm social and he's not