For religious reasons we can't use barrier protection, but thanks for the suggestion.

It's OK, I've found the perfect solution to not getting your period - post a thread on BB complaining about it, and that night you will for sure get it!! It's going to be pretty heavy I think (at the back of my mind I wonder if I had a m/c?? I guess the blood test results will show higher HCG and then I'll know), but at least I got it. Now I'll be diligent about making sure I have 30 day cycles, and hopefully that will keep my body more or less where it needs to be, and then next year hopefully we can get pregnant again.

I did the same thing when I was overdue with DD, posted a thread complaining about no labour on the horizon, and then 2 hours later started with contractions, so that's my advice, if you want something to happen, complain on BB about it, and then it will happen!

Thanks everyone