At the moment we are using condoms also as we are not 100% sure we definately DON'T want to add to the brood. Once we know DH is having a vasectomy. I'm confident we wont be having anymore but the vasectomy just seems to final at this point. Maybe because out youngest is only 3months old and in anothe year or so we will know for sure we don't want to start again. Goodluck with your decision.