ok, first i'll do a bit of this


ok....

we are in a similar boat. ATM we are using the good ol' condom, but it is a bit of a kill-joy IYKWIM.

I'm not going to get anything contraceptive wise I think. just the impact on my body and mood etc would be a bit too much to handle i reckon. so i *guess* the snip...but gosh, that does seem soooo final doesnt it??