Bekz a GF of mine was raised Anglican as as her DH but they now go to a generic Christian church (?). They literally shopped around and visited a heap of different Churches over a number of years to find a priest/pastor and congregation they clicked with. I know my friend and her DH listed a whole heap of things that were important to them in a church, such as tolerance, focus on the family, a strong emphasis on community/charity work and so on. So maybe try that approach - you might for example be strongly attracted to Buddhism for example, but if you don't find a group that wroks for you it won't help you on your path IYKWIM? hope this helps