I know what you mean PX, I just didn't know how to say it The one thing my parents really drilled into us was that even though we believe we are the only true religion, doesn't give us the right to be rude or nasty or arrogant. 'love the sinner, hate the sin'. The story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman comes to mind, she was so surprised that a Jew would speak to a Samaritan, a female one at that!