Thanks for that, it makes sense now as he told me there would be some other adults doing it also. This may sound silly but having the conformation as an adult, do you still dress up? or do people go along casually? I just remember my holy communion (20 years ago now!) wearing a big white dress and it was pretty formal. I also need to educate myself in that regard because dh asked me which saint i was going to choose for this and the only one i could think of is Saint Christopher (protector of children i think?). I really don't remember much as my catholic education onl went until about age 8.