My miscarriage happened when i was 13 weeks in - 'safe'. It wasn't red blood so the doctors weren't too concerned until the ultrasound and they found a foetus that was only 8 weeks and had not foetal heart movement - missed miscarriage. I had a D&C two days later. That was 6 weeks ago and still no period. Many of my friends are expecting, and many more are announcing so that is harder; i hadn't told many people so i suppose that makes it easier in some ways, but those who did/do know haven't been very helpful. Everyone has expected me to be back to normal now, to be coping fine. I keep going through so many emotions. I feel like i had a promise of a future and that has been taken away and i have to start all over again.
People seem to have the attitude that its easier because the pregnancy was unplanned. It was unplanned but NOT unwanted - there is a difference.
How do i move on? I dont have a clue right now.