Having a D&C today

[Turkish Delight]

Just wanted to share will all of you that i will be having a D&C and tubes tied this afternoon and am terribly emotional about it this morning. Still weeping at the loss.

Yesterday was my first and last ob appt when i was told that the sac was empty at about 6-7w. I have never experience a m/c before and it is a totally harrowing experience. My symapthies to all that experience several as they are TTC. I don't know how you all cope. I am a wreck. My eyes are all puffy from crying too much last night as i grieve the baby that was unplanned but still very wanted me and me only. My parents (and hubby even i believe deep down) wasn't very excited about #3. Ok, i was still coming to terms with looking after two very young bubs but it is what God must have wanted to give this bub to me at the most unexpected time, which he has now taken from me. I WANT HER BACK. God, i had even named her. She was going to be the little sister that Ela would have had that i never had.

My hugs to all those that has lost an older bub at the much later stages of pregnancy. My heart goes out to you all.

Thanks for listening.

[Kitt3n]

oh hun - i am so sorry to hear of this having a d&c really does suck - i hope the hopsital takes extra special care of you.

i understand your pain - i still think abou mine every day. but why are you having your tubes tied?

[Visitor7]

I'm very sorry for your loss and I wish you all the best for today, and in the future.

[aussienic]

:hugs: I am sorry for your loss..

I too am interested to hear as to why you are getting your tubes tied?

[AJC]

I know the pain that your feeling and I am deeply sorry that you are experiencing this.

[Snoopea]

Wishing you the courage to face today and the knowledge that we'll all be here if you need us!

[Turkish Delight]

Hi All,

I was going to have my tubes tied as i could not face having another m/c again but it wasn't meant to be! They could not schedule in my tubes tieing on the day and could only do my d&c. I had an IUD inserted instead. I thought that it was a sign from above that i was meant to have more kids.

I had the d&C and was informed by the obs that my baby died very early on in the pregnancy which has helped me through this as i know that it may not have lived at all.
We are planning to have another probably in 2009 or 2010.

I will always remember my little angel.

[AJC]

Sehra - I personally think that it sounds like everything happened for the best during your procedure.
You will always hold a very special place in your heart for your little angel.
Take care

[LisaL]

Sehra sweety, I am so sorry for your loss. Time will help you to heal a little, but your little angel will forever live in your heart. I am soooo relieved you didnt get your tubes tied. Its obvious you werent ready for such a huge step, and that God has plans for you my sweet, to be a mummy to one more precious bub in the future.

Take care of yourself,
Lisa