Hi, a week ago i just had my third miscarriage. i was supposed to be 12wks, instead i was told my baby had no heartbeat. Apparently my baby died at 9wks 1day. I thought i was safe this time. My mother is pregnant too- one week ahead of me...i just dont kno wat to do anymore....
So terribly sorry for your losses. It is certainly a very difficult and confusing time after a m/c, let alone three (in a row I assume?) I suffered my fifth m/c (3rd in a row) approx. a month ago and I am still going through an array of emotions, some good, some bad. You will find tons of support here at BB, with many other ladies (& men) who have been or are going through m/c. Please know that you are not alone and you may find it beneficial to join in one of the threads for m/c.
Does your mum know you have lost the baby? Is she supportive or is it too painful to be around her knowing she is pg? I can't answer what you should or shouldn't do but my opinion is to get a referral to either an OBS/GYNO or FS to discuss testing for recurrent m/c to try to find out the answer to your recurrent m/c. I wish you all the very best in whatever decision you make. x
Diannescruffy & eutra_phalia- Thankyou for your hugs and kind words. It really means alot.
Rhichichi- Thankyou, and im so so so sorry for u as well. Yes, it is the third in a row. The hospital and my GP are going to do tests to find out whats going on. My mother knows, but i dont really feel very supported by her right now. I feel quite upset and angry at how she's acting. Thankyou for replying xx
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