Hi Bronny, welcome to BB and I am so very sorry for your loss . A loss is a loss, no matter in which circumstance or whether you have children or not. It makes me so mad when people say silly things, probably without realising how hurtful they sound. But the truth is, they don't mean to upset you, they just want to cheer you up, except it comes out all wrong. Or they don't know what to say!!
I hope your heart will heal soon, thinking of you hun.
Beata xxx