Missed M/C at 12 weeks.

[Chalalan]

Hi All,

I just wanted to share with my BB friends that I went for my 12 week ultrasound today and have found that I have had a missed miscarriage. I am booked in for a D&C tomorrow.

I'm very sad, but I'm also a realist and know that there must have been something wrong for my baby not to survive.

Thanks for listening,

[csab]

Chalalan - I am so very sorry for your loss, take time to grieve hun, I know this is such a hard time for you. Remember we are here for you. Thinking of you in the sad time. All the very best for tomorrow hun. Lots of hugs.

[Serendypyty]

Oh sweetheart, I have no idea what to say... I'm really sorry to hear about your loss, thinking of you and your DP at this sad time...

[AmandaJ]

Sweety, I'm so sorry for your loss.

hugs xoxo

[Willow]

I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my baby almost exactly the same way...we found out a day before our NT scan.

[Shanti]

oh sweety :hugs: I'm so so sorry.... I've seen you happily posting away in the pregnancy threads and i've been so happy for you.... i'm really sorry it didn't work out this time....
I feel really sad for you.... I hope you find all the support you need in here to get thru this devastating loss and also your family and friends around you.

[~Kim~]

Oh Sweetie, I saw your sig on another post and I wondered what had happened to you today.
I'm so sorry.

[bettyboop]

sorry to hear of your loss, sending you a big hug

[AnnaBelle]

Chalalan

I know exactly how you are feeling
It is just such a shock cause you are thinking everything is OK
& it turns out so different to how you imagined it.
Take the time to grieve and express how you feel to those
closest to you. (& us girls at BB too)

xo

[ovemailqueen]

Went to the doctor Wednesday because I was Spotting and Cramping and I was 11 weeks along.
Didnt hear the Heart so an Ultasound was done. Saw something, but couldn't make it out.
Went back the next day(Thursday) and an Internal Ultrasound was done.
Nothing was seen. My Levels were at a 5 and should've been at 18.
I was told that something happened arounnd the 6th to 8th week and the baby just desinigrated. The Doctor isn't sure what happened.
Went straight the the Hospital and had a D&C done.
Feelin alittle better today (Saturday) but still very upset and cry all the time.
I already have a 14 year old Daughter, but I really wanted this baby.
Does the Sorrow ever go away?
Thanks for listening!

[tina_k]

ovemailqueen: well, not sure of the sorrow ever goes away, mine certainly hasnt, howver i can say that it does get easier..take as much time as you need to grieve

[jen805]

Hey Chalalan-- I'm new to this site, but I read your message and just wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. I know a little of what you're going through. I went to the Dr. on March 3 for an ultrasound, and they told me I was going to miscarry. I was supposed to be 13 weeks, but they told me the baby had stopped developing at 8 weeks. Had my m/c on the 5th--the day before my b-day. There's no words of comfort that I can give you that will make you feel better, but it has helped me tremendously to read other stories of women going through and feeling the same things that I'm feeling right now. I pray that when you decide to TTC you will be blessed with a speedy miracle! Hope you feel better soon.