All over... another one bites the dust..

**LadyRaven** · November 19th, 2009, 04:30 PM

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**bubno.3** · November 19th, 2009, 04:35 PM

That is really not fair you and your DF .... i hope they can figure out things for you .. xx

**Liz** · November 19th, 2009, 04:37 PM

Oh no

I'm so sorry. I don't really know what to say... but I'll send you a big *hug*

**Inanna** · November 19th, 2009, 04:37 PM

I am sorry Celtic Moon

I don't obviously know the answer as to why you have had these two losses. I wish I did.

A karotyping is basically looking at your chromosomes and that of your partner to see if there is any aberrations. They will see how they gel together and if in fact either of you carry any issues in your chromosomal make up that could account for this.

Have you had the full autoimmune picture looked at too?

Yes, IVF can be expensive - take it a step a a time..

Fly safely little Bubba

I hope your body heals swiftly my love.

**kawazuki** · November 19th, 2009, 05:41 PM

im so sorry your going through this.

it is not fair and i wish i could give you the answers i really do.

i hope you get some positives from the next meeting.

and i wish you luck in your journey.

**trubabe** · November 19th, 2009, 05:45 PM

sorry for your loss celtic. karyotype is testing chromosones etc

**LadyRaven** · November 19th, 2009, 05:47 PM

The surgeon/ob/gyno was really lovely, I told him about Dylan, the way he looked etc, and he read all the reports this time. Got a lot of blood work done before surgery to see if they can figure out why I bleed so much, everything came back normal but at least they were prepared for a blood transfusion and a procedure that he said normally takes about 40 minutes took just over 2 hours because he was very gentle and thoughour. He said I have no problem conceiving, no problem with implantation, just the babies keep dying so he thinks theres a genetic problem. I only just accepted a PT role then got my hours fked over so we barely have enough money to eat let alone pay for testing, not happy jan, been applying for every job under the sun trying to get extra $$, don't seem to be getting anywhere though

Just upset, disappointed, hating myself, my body keeps betraying me, prefer to not be able to fall pregnant than to keep having angels. I want my babies back *bursts into tears*