Sorry I have not had the chance to say thanks for the information until now. So, thank you!

@Kate07 - thanks for the link.

@M7Missy - I think I would be somewhat like your friend. I am not sure how I would deal with the whole process.

In SA there are limited 'info sessions' in a year so I guess we will be waiting for one to come up that is not on when my husband is away.

Thanks again,