Thanks both of you for your replies, I'm glad I kept a copy of all the emails to him in past about contact visits! can you believe he had the nerve to complain about the emails with the photos of Tyson blocking up his email system! after that I stopped sending him photos and will send them to docs worker instead. I went out of my way to make and effort to get along with him for the sake of the kids, otherwise I wouldnt have anything to do with him. Out of all the lovely foster carers out there we sadly are stuck with a nutter and they know it too, a few workers warned us about him..I gave him the benefit of the doubt at first, sadly, they were right. He's nothing but a manipulator and drama queen. DH said he should've been a car salesman, lol