The decision to adopt.....

[~Aveta~]

my DF is adopted, and has never looked for or wanted to know his birth parents. he's constantly grateful for what his adopted parents did for him - gave him a great life and a chance to grow up in a family. DF was removed from his birth parents at 3 weeks old due to their chronic alcoholism.

i think the decision to adopt is a lovely giving thing to do - look what it did for my DF! we're looking to foster if we can't conceive naturally in the next 2 years, considering my age.

[rubibaby]

hi dazed...
all i have to offer is similar to what others have said and that is it sounds like you and your dw would make wonderful, loving parents and that there are a lot of children in the world who need parents like yourselves. i hope this helps with your decision. good luck!