In the long run I would choose nursing. When your children go to school you can do day shifts and come home to a clean house and spend time with your children.

FDC can restrict you doing things at kinder and school.

Have you had a look at the pay difference. I know this is not the only reason for doing something. Do you need to take out extra insurance to do FDC?

One way to help decide is to write out a list of pros & cons of each job.