With DS I have found the BBH Magic Pockets and Pea Pods great cause you can customize the padding. I got extra soaker's for each as DS is a heavy wetter. I also went for the snaps as DS worked out pretty early how to take off Velcro but Velcro would be quicker to put on. We also use a toy or what ever to distract DS on the change table as he is a real wriggler and can flip over before you blink.