Webmeg- What a wonderful DC that your DD goes to. I knew they are all nut free but had no idea that you could find egg free ones as well. I will definately have to have a look around my area to see if there is anything similar. If not i think once her FDC leaves i will hang off putting her back in care until i have too although i will miss my one day off. Been told by a local DC that they will "do their best" as you said in your post would not be suitable in my book.
Hope all is well on your end.