Best wishes to you for tomorrow Michelle.

Here are some tips:

1. sit down tonight with DH and write a list of all the things you want to ask the doctors and put it straight into you purse/nappy bag so you can't forget it.

2. If the doctor doesn't answer you question so that you understand him/her ask it again.. If you need to say "I don't understand what you mean" (it is part of a doctors job to educate their patients so that they can make informed decisions and give informed consent. Some really bad looser doctors will make you feel silly if you can't understand their answers... don't be afraid to remind them you have not spent x amount of years at med school, a lot of these terms and words are new to you and might as well be in another language and that you just NEED (not want) to understand).

3. Don't leave without answers you understand.

I have learnt the hard way what happens when you walk out of a specialist not really understanding or knowing and can only imagine how much worse it would be to walk out not knowing when it involves the health of your child.

Again all the best for tomorrow and positive vibes galore for you, Dh and Alex.