a friend tagged me in this note on facebook and i just wanted to share this with you all made me cry it surly is just gorgous
Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures, and a couple by habit. This year, hundreds of women will become mothers of special children.
Did you ever wonder how mothers of special children are chosen?
Somehow I visualize God hovering over the Earth selecting His instruments of propagation with great care and deliberation. As He observes, He instructs His angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
‘Armstrong, Beth, son. Patron Saint, Matthew’
‘Forest, Marjorie, daughter, Patron Saint, Cecilia.’
‘Rutledge, Carries, twins. Patron Saint, Gerard.’
He’s quite used to profanity.’ Finally He passes a name to an angel and smiles.
‘Give her a special child.’
The angel is curious. ‘Why this one, God? She’s so happy.’
‘Exactly,’ smiles God. ‘Could I give a special child to a mother who does not know how to laugh? That would be cruel.’
‘But does she have patience?’ asks the angel.
‘I don’t want her to have too much patience, or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once shock and resentment wear off, she’ll handle it.’
;I watch her today. She has that sense of self and independence that are so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I’m going to give her has his own world. She has to make him live in her world and that’s not going to be easy.’
‘But Lord, I don’t think she believes in you.’
God smiles. ‘No matter I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness.’
The angel gasps. ‘Selfishness? Is that a virtue?’
God nods ‘If she can’t separate herself from the child occasionally. She’ll never survive.
Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn’t realise it yet, but she is to be envied.’
‘She will never take for granted a spoken word. She will never consider a step to ordinary. When her child says ‘Mummy’ for the first time she will be witnessing a miracle and know it. I will permit her to see clearly the things I see- ignorance, cruelty, prejudice and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of the day of her life because she is doing my work as surely as she is by my side.’
‘And what about her patron saint?’ asks the angel, his pen posed in mid air.
God smiles. ‘A mirror will suffice.’
That is truely lovely- thank you for sharing that.... made me stop and think about people I know who are mothers and fathers of childern with special needs and it rings completely true ...xx
This was beautiful, it really hit home with me at the moment and my current situation and will give me the strength to continue when times get the tough.
Thankyou for sharing, I have read this before and it is lovely.
It is funny I have read this today actually. I had two jehovahs witnesses knock on my door today and DD1 crawled over and they asked what was wrong with her, I proceeded to explain both her and DD2's conditions and they handed me a booklet, no problem, then one of them says 'some people believe that special children are given to special mothers, I think that is just their way of taking the easy way out!' I was so angry, how dare she knock on my door and then offend me by saying this... I may have taken her the wrong way, I have no idea about their practice but I was deeply offended. I believe that I was choosen to have two special girls because I am strong, patient and loving and I am able to give them everything they need to thrive, I was so angry that she knocked on my door and told me that my way of thinking was 'taking the easy way out' after explaining that she had two healthy children, grrr.
Sorry I didn't mean to turn this into a negative, just wanted to explain that this message came to me when I needed it most and reinforced that my girls were 'given' to me for the reasons I believed all along.
Oh, that's amazing I don't even believe in "the big guy upstairs" but what a lovely story in any case... I like to think that there's a reason each special child is given to their parents, and this is a great way of putting it.
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I don't even believe in "the big guy upstairs" but what a lovely story in any case... I like to think that there's a reason each special child is given to their parents, and this is a great way of putting it.
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