Lest - with my son and creche - I asked them about him, when he was about 2.5 and someone from the council came out, an inclusion support officer, and they work with the carers to get the most of out his time there. That woman also suggested we see a paed.

It's hard in the beginning, when you don't know, the more you read, the more you think that's what is wrong and you can't get appointments made quick enough.

It's also hard when other mums think you are over reacting, but when there are lots of little things, they do add up to something.

Christy - no one does a good a 'job' as the mum. We're ace. I can't imagine how hard it gets.