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    Yeddi, I had DD organise my spices... put them into jars and label them with me... I found the ones she loved and we put them in old baby food jars with labels on them on her level so she could smell them when she needed her fix at home, ones like star anis and clove and cumin were her favourite for a while... I've also seen in the chemist a diy perfume kit for young girls? I also burned incense in the house and bought oil burners... I took DD to choose the oils so she could tell me which one to burn. I think sometimes the sweet smell doesn't meet that need... I would often make heaps of currys or very smelly food (fish... ) during DD1's time. I used to feed her fish cakes for lunch etc etc... always something with a strong smell. HTH!

    *warning mentioning Lu....*

    FJ- Lulu used to flap... we used to joke about it and she would text me when she flapped and say "why did it take me so long to see this???"

    loulabelle - DD1 has gone through periods of loosing her ability to speak. It is always due to anxiety levels, and sometimes its horrible because it increases her anxiety to not be able to speak and then its meltdown city. When we were doing speach therapy it helped, but even now, after we finished speech (its 4am and I can't work out how to spell speech lmao) she goes through phases of it. Currently, she tries to spell it out in air.... I've just got an app on iTunes to help her on my iPhone. She can write the words out but not say them. She now laughs when it happens, but its soooo frustrating for both of us after a while.

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    Burning incense - duh. Why didn't I think of that! I wonder if frankincense would be good or bad. It's meant to have a focusing effect, hence its use in temples. Would they become more focused on the things that overload them, or would it help cut those things out. I will have to do some experimentation. At the moment I've only got lavender, and peppermint.

    The spices are a wonderful idea too. Thanks Christy. I wonder if I can make her a smelly box for school...


    Oh, I just wanted to share a major win! This week DD drew her first ever recognisable picture, yay! We've been working very hard on it with the OT. Before she used to just move her textas around the page doing circles upon circles until the paper disintegrated because it had so much ink on it, but after a year of therapy now we have a picture - a face. It's still circle based, head, nose, eyes and an "o" mouth, BUT it's a picture! I cried.

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    Sorry selfish post... How do I explain to DS1 that once the banana has been broken that it can't be fixed but it's still ok to eat?

    He won't eat 'broken' food and it's one of the few things that really set him off

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    I've read something about this. It's about wholes and not understanding how parts make a whole, so it means he doesn't think it is a banana any more because it's not together.

    Let me go find it, I wasn't reading it too long ago...
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    That'd be great thanks!!! That does make sense about it being wholes and not understanding parts,

    It happens with all foods, just today it's a banana lol.

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    We had that for years... if something broke while eating it, then the whole thing is gone. I used to get so angry and frustrated at her... then I just gave up... She has had the issue recently with bread having a hole in it...

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    Thought I should give it its own post...



    I soon realized that the inability to process partiality was at the root of the autistic child's fascination with spinning. Spinning, if you think about it, does something that few other activities could do... it could create a visual impression that allowed the parts to become "the whole". As the toy car was spun, the wheel studs disappeared and became part of the whole. Since the "small middle wheel with the raised surface" did not spin fast enough to produce this illusion of the part becoming the whole, Zachary refused to spin it and in fact, did all he could to prevent even me from trying to do so. That particular "small middle wheel" was still very much a source of frustration for him.

    This was a critical key to the autistic child's love of spinning... spinning made the parts become part of the whole... made the parts no longer easily distinguishable from the whole. It was important to note that "a part" could be as small as a "spec" on an object - it needed only be "something" the child did not perceive as belonging there... as a "natural part" to the whole. The inability to understand the whole without first understanding the parts, was completely in line with what was observed in spinning. Until the child understood "the parts" - in anything in life - and how they "made up the whole", “parts” would continue to be a source of frustration for the autistic child and would continue to make him seek coping mechanisms, such as spinning, to help him deal with the frustration that resulted from those things, those "parts" in his world he could not make sense of.

    The key to extinguishing these "odd behaviors" was in helping the autistic child understand how the parts made up the whole and in defining the “purpose” behind everything... and the best way to do that was through the use of labels, explanations, the concept of fractions, words of quantity, words to cope, etc. I found the best way to deal with all these issues mentioned above was simply to make use of labels. Labeling and explaining everything provided a "whole entity" for the partial... making each part a whole in and of itself. Labeling and other coping mechanisms were further addressed in other sections.
    So, from this I would guess the best thing to do is physically show him, before it's an issue, a whole banana saying "whole banana", and then show him what it looks like when you break in half saying, "half a banana", and then show him how it fits together, and go from there.

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    Oh Iain has a terrible time with broken food!

    My boys school had a mud filled obstacle course day today. When we arrived at the school, Evan raised concern about "Racing" in the rain/mud. I though for sure it was going to be a hard day for both boys. But they had a BLAST! Glenn had mud from top to toe. Really enjoyed it. Evan also. Both had meltdowns at the end of the day but I was expecting that & it didn't last long ( I think they are both to tired lol). But woosh they had fun lol. Login | Facebook if you want to have a looksie.

    Also, I spoke briefly with Evans teacher that he has on Fridays. She seems much more in tune with what is going on with him. She is going to chase up the referral as I don't believe the teacher who is leaving bothered to submit it which I am ****ed off about. But the other teacher is really keen to get him the 1 on 1 he needs. She clearly sees he needs it.