oh bloody hell Christy...you poor chicken!!!
Do you think the change has caught up with her?? Delayed rection??
My only suggestion is to totally ignore her babe....as hard as it get up and walk away from her when she does this to you. Calmy...without talking and without looking at her. Sometimes those little things can triggen them of worse IFYKWIM. I cant make any eye contact what so ever with Wilhelm at his agro stages and revert to this which 'cools' the situation.

And what your feeling is totally normal when this happens..dont you ever doubt yourself or think your a bad mum for feeling like this. We are aloud to feel like shiat...we cant be happy happy joy joy 100% of the time, especially when our childs are hurting or frustrated.

oh another thing I found helped when Wilhelm was like this was a liquid Iron suppliment called incremin...yellow label with a giraffe on it... I use to hide it in his milo but now he knows when he's bad and ask's for his 'headache' medicine

Give each other some space babe......I wish I could come over and she could kick me instead of you.