Sarah - we got A DS for WIlhelm for Christmas too...he's heart broken cause he's already lost a game and he keep's telling me that he needs to buy a new one. Ive made a rule that its an hours play adn then it gets put up in my room. Ive always made this rule since the boys were small and ive been consistant with it so I dont get any **** when the hour is up.
We tell Wilhelm that he's a special boy with super powers that we dont have. I told him about 2 weeks ago that he has 'Autism' and that we dont care if his brain is different to ours. He took it alright but I think it's gonna take a bit more for us to get it through to him. I like the idea of the book about it...Might have to invest in it I think. I know NIkolaus get's frustrated with him at times...but ive heard him tell his friends (proudly) his brother has Autism and is really smart....the 'normal' child seems to always suffer more then the child that is affected but it Poor Nikolaus has been through so much and it hurts cause he can remember everything that happens.
Wilhelm is heavily into movies....like who the actors are, the people who help make it and trialers. He'd rarther sit and watch the second disc about the movie making thent he actual movie. We always say he's gonna be the next Steven Speilberg lol.
The last week we have been prepping him up for Mateauz birthday...which he told us was in October until about 3 weeks ago lol. We're having a party here on saturday so hopefully he'll be alright. there are going to be heaps of pools of water for the kids to play in go his water fixation will be in fine form.
Sarah - I bought one of those egg chairs from Ikea for Wilhelms time out. Its great cause it has a pull down blind so when he's really bad he goes and sit's in it and chill's and can block the outside world. When we first got it he used it 2 -3 times a day and now he is lucky to use it once a week.
A for other children in the family on the spectrum - my niece has 2 that are on it. Funyn thing is...When Wilhelm was diagnosed my sister and both nieces laughed and told me suck ****! yes i dont talk to the loser's at all but anyway...her 3 yo daughter was diagnosed (unformally) with aspergers and now her almost one year old son is showing exactly the same signs...Karma people is all im saying! although I would never wish it on anyone but still they now live my life
Our problem with Wilhelm atm is that he plays with his penis all the time....drives me insane so I just tell him to leave his penis alone...I sound like such a broken record
Oh Maz, my heart goes out to you and Wilhelm about losing the game, Xander is completely paranoid about losing a game or the stylus! We got some free games with ours, which one did he lose I might have one here that is similar. Xanny is only playing pokemon at the momnet so he wouldn't notice if one of other ones vamooshed.
I lent the book to another family whose daughter has autism and they loved it and went out and bought there own copy. They found it was excellent, not only for their daughter (6) but for their older kids to understand too! We got ours from sue larkey's website.
Maz - OMG at your family! I wouldn't be talking to them either. I have been eying off those egg chairs! Just need to find somewhere local that has one/stocks it to see if he will sit in it.
Sam - Yes he does get fixated on the DS and playstation but we set the oven timer and he knows what that means. we also use the DS to destress when we HAVE to go places like shopping etc. The other thing is he is already heavily into the pokemon world and plays "pretend mode" where he acts out pokemon - usually an episode he has seen on tv or somewhere else. We have found by directing him towards playstation/DS it helps with his communication with other kids as it gives him a topic they understand rather then his "pretend mode" which no-one but him truely understood all the 'rules' to.
We spent 3/4 of the day in a cardboard box today. But Ari thought it was awesome and made a car out of hers. I also managed to get him on the trampoline for a little while today which has helped to settle him a little. Only 27 days till school goes back Xander is counting down!
Hi - did anyone watch a show called Magnificent 7 on the ABC last night ? It's based on a true story of a single mum of seven who has four sons who are 'on the spectrum'.
I missed bits of it, but have found it is in 10 minute parcels on youtube.
I made a horrible mistake today... I thought that with 3 days of prepping that we could go to the shops. I chose shops that are outside, and we popped into the chemist for 2 minutes, into the bread shop for 2 minutes... etc etc. We went into 3 shops and then spent time outside, she had the DS with her and sat in the back of the pram. She was good the entire time.... then we got home. Matilda lost it, ran out onto the street, screamed for 2 hours. Bit, scratched, kicked and hit me repeatedly. I thought we could do it, and I prepped her using pictures etc, I showed her where and she was excited about going out. But obviously it was too much too soon....
I have another month to wait for appointments.... *groan*
Oh Christy! What a good girl she was though to hold out till you got home! I have found the same we can usually only go to one or two shops before coming home. I don't know what it is that sets them off? Noise, smell, lights?
After having a few days to process the news, I'm finally ready to put it down in words.
Isobel, who is 6 years old has language delay, but with speech therapy has really improved, and is starting grade 1 this year.
William who is 4 1/2 was diagnosed with ASD a year and a half ago.
Daria is 28 months old and has significant language delay - less than 20 words.
Alexander, Darias' twin was diagnosed with ASD on Tuesday.
We were expecting the news, so it wasn't that big of a shock, but it has absolutely gutted us at the same time. We were desperately hoping that he wasn't, but it wasn't to be.
Because all of the kidlets have problems- the paed's words were "One child with ASD is unusual, two is almost unheard of, and the girls have problems as well. Your the unluckiest family I know". - we now have to go and have genetic testing done.
There is only a 5 - 10 % that the testing will show up anthing, but if there is anything, then we want them to make an informed decision when they are older if they want to have kidlets of their own.
We are still processing the news, and just taking it one day at a time, it's just really good to be able to put thoughts down, even if it is just rambling!
oh Karla It must have been hard writing it down. The processing is the worst part of it. There is a family at Matilda's school with the oldest boy having Asperger's, and the 2 sisters have dyspraxia.... one that is 6 has it severely and the baby sister who is around 2 yrs old isn't using words yet.
Poor Nikolaus has been through so much and it hurts cause he can remember everything that happens.
It must have been hard writing it down. The processing is the worst part of it. There is a family at Matilda's school with the oldest boy having Asperger's, and the 2 sisters have dyspraxia.... one that is 6 has it severely and the baby sister who is around 2 yrs old isn't using words yet.
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