well....J and I had a discussion on a form of attack for M.
We wont be letting him sleep longer then 8am...yes the kid can sleep for hours if we let him (not a good sign with his known brain damage)
and first thing we do is offer him a banana or apple cause we know it makes him poo within 10mins.
No loud harsh voice tones when we tell him off..remove him from the situation, tell him its no and then ask him to hug the person he has hurt to say sorry.

This morning he woke at 8am by himself and i quickly lobbed a banana his way and B.I.N.G.O poo from hell!!!!!!!
We have had such a calmer day...only one melt down which was quickly nibbed in the bud with 'lets share' with a big smile on my dial. He hurt V once and once I said no you hurt V she is crying, give her a hug better he did.

Who would have thought that poo would do this?? honestly its madness

We