That is completely unacceptable, I am glad you are taking it further. From someone who does have a disabled child, if I was told that now I would just be angry and have lots to say, but my DD is 3. If someone had spoken to me and discrimated against my DD like that when she was so little it definately would have tipped me over the edge. Most creches at gyms etc won't take disabled children, but I have been told a lot more diplomaticaly than that!! plus a baby is a baby, when DD was a baby I was told they would take her at the gym etc, as it is basicly the same as having a younger child in there, even though DD was 1, ITMS?