MP, I think the GP would be the first call, unless you have a particular paed that you can go straight to? Please don't beat yourself up over not noticing it earlier - it is the sort of thing that most people wouldn't notice until the start of school time unless it was severe, just because some kids do take longer than others to do certain things and it is not a problem until it is a problem.

This is something that is on my radar with A - very uncoordinated, can't do zips/buttons, poor attention, slow speech with long pauses while she searches for the word. I will see how she goes at school next year and take it from there. Not sure if it is an actual problem or if I am just paranoid after already having one kid that has issues.