Thanks everyone for words of support. Today was our first complete day in the harness, and well, honestly, it was nothing short of miserable. Nat has always been a good sleeper and I think has just gone to sleep successfully now (7pm) for the first time since she woke up at 7am this morning. The harness straps were cutting into her neck and have started to break the skin, so on advice from a friend who is a physio and has worked with these harnesses, we have put a little singlet on underneath the harness to protect her neck. Has anyone needed to do this? Has anyone any other solutions to this. I have rung all the physio departments at the local hospitals and none are open again till Monday, so I have to somehow get through the weekend.

Hmm, I lied, she is crying again... OMG will she EVER sleep again....