Pam, I'd be worried too, particularly when you have your older three as benchmarks for those same development milestones. I can't begin to imagine how frustrating it must be to not be getting any answers from the specialists. Sometimes I wonder just how good their training was and whether they bother with ongoing professional development... Just put mittens on her, I mean really... Sigh. And there's no way to review who's good and who's to be avoided. I'm really sorry that you're going through all this worry for Poppy and I hope that some answers turn up soon (for Poppy and for yourself).