Oh Shannon - what a tough christmas you guys are having. What a tough year!

Is there any way you can get a 3rd opinion? Like from someone completely removed? Maybe a visit to QLD and an appt with someone at the hospital up there (citing that you are contemplating a move) might be a way to go?

Also are there any support groups for families that have been through similar things. It seems like maybe a good option would be to find out how other parents (and children) felt about their decisions several years on.

Hugs to you guys - and happy new year

Fi