My Aspergers child ~ The good and the not so good!

[~Raven~]

Yeah they are working on that stuff with him. Hopefully he will improve with the bit of help he is getting.

Thanks guys Yesterday even though we were stoked about his academic achievement I'm really worried about him becoming a bit of an outcast socially. I'd prefer the balance to tip more the other way IYKWIM.

[mrsmac]

I had a little boy in my class last year who was the same, I gave him the academic excelllence award at the end of the year because he was by far the smartest in the class, we worked on a psecial social skills program with him which has helped heaps. Does your son have any specialist people coming into school to help?? We have a specialised Aspergers teacher come in once a week with X so she can go through social stuff.

[~Trish~]

Raven. Well done to your little man, he sounds so smart!

My older brother has Aspergers Syndrome. Unfortunately he wasn't diagnosed until much later in life (he's 38) so he didn't get the help and support he needed in school. He has never been too good socially, but he has had some good friends over the years who have made an effort with him and they really bring him out of his shell. He can be so animated and "normal" at times, and other times won't even respond when I say "hello" to him. It's amazing though, get him on the phone or chat to him online and you would never know. He is fantastic at communicating through the written word and he has a heap of pen & phone friends. Thanks to the internet he can email everyone now too.

So I just wanted to say that because your son has the right people working with him while he is so young, he has every chance of becoming more social and making some great friends.

[mrsmac]

Remember Bill Gates is reportedto have it as are a number of famous and successful people.

[MistyFying]

Sam I totally know what you're saying. It's such a roller coaster, and it's ok to grieve a little bit amidst the cheering, IYKWIM. I think it's a totally natural response